pitsoul wrote:i've actually longed to do my nose n lipo nad BA since many yrs ago. jus found out recently there is a cheaper alternative from u guys. So happy n glad. Now that I'm free from my schedule and i'm gg to book airticket/hotel/appt. but my bf is not supportive n said dat he doesn't like anyting fake n dat i hv prob in my brain n dat he won't to ch me in future cos he know that i'm fake......we fought for many days alr..
I'm so sad now...sorry to b bringing this out but am veri disappted..at a lost now..
How do u guys deal wif tis?
it depends on ur reasons for wanting PS in first place, and how much u cherish your partner. You will prob need to sit down and have a non-confrontational talk with him.
Put your ideas across why you want the PS, looking good is usually surface; there are underlying issues to wanting to look good. For me, i was lacking in confidence; some people may want to look more attractive for their partners etc.
Help him see your reasons and at the same time, try to see his as well. Maybe hating fake things is only surface, is he afraid you might leave him if you start looking prettier? dig deeper into his psyche
Wanting to look good, and hating fake things wun make for very good arguments, and if you end up quarrelling, communication usually breaks down, so do try to engage him in a calm discussion.
i'm glad my girlfriend allowed me to go ahead with mine. Haha, i convinced her to get some stuff done too... but only after i am done, cos i will have to sponsor her!