The word "commoner" is not one I have ever used. I believe it stems from some warped hangup
some Brit's have. I can't be bothered with such stupidity.
From your last post, it appears your wife has the luxury of staying at home and not working - which affords you the luxury of making the sweeping statements that you have here about people being lazy and superficial. I don't know why I am wasting my time here, but I'm going to have one last go at this...
God only knows, if I were a superficial person only interested in money and things, I certainly wouldn't do the job I do (and love). I wouldn't have married the man that I did (and love). Your comments in your last post were certainly directed at me, so I feel it's appropriate to point these things out. I don't mean them to sound emotional, because they're not. We all make choices - I'm very happy with mine.
Being worried about money and my financial future, and complaining about being ripped off of the salary that I have, does not make me superficial. It doesn't make anyone superficial. People not stopping to talk to you 'as they go along' (would you expect people to do that in Scotland?
), does not make them snobs.
Yes, some expats are idiots. Some are snobs. Some look down their noses at you and ask you which club you belong to, and comment that, "It's just so hard to get good help these days". I think we can all back that up with more than a few stories... I've got some real corkers! (Maybe we can do that on another thread.) Didn't you meet people like that in Scotland too? I know I met my fair share of dickheads at home, and other places I've lived, to know that not every expat here is going to be just like me, or a friend in the making.
Don't you get that slagging off everyone who rents private accomodation (and complains about price hikes), sends their kids to
International Schools and employs a maid is just as snobby as these afore-mentioned idiots?
I'm not angry at your views. I'm just gobsmacked by the simplicity of them. I wish you well too. No really - have a good day. I've got a bunch of hormone-ridden teenagers pouring in through my door. It's gonna be a good one here!