any guys who allow your gf to be air Stewardess

d3123 · Post by **d3123** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 2:44 am

give me some advice

Plavt · Post by **Plavt** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 5:56 am

queenie-me · Post by **queenie-me** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 6:21 am

d3123 wrote:give me some advice

well... if u don't mind the long waiting of meeting her again.

toygirl · Post by **toygirl** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 10:23 am

LOL - Hmm... men think to be jealous and paranoid by nature?

You got to have a lot of trust - I know some boyfriends who follow their girlfriends to the airport and when they land, ferry them back. I think they are worried their gems will be captured from some richie rich onboard.

shrapnel · Post by **shrapnel** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 11:36 am

i totally agree with toygirl..TRUST is the most important element in a relationship.so if u put trust n understanding there'll be no prob..ya sometimes it's easy to express it out but action speaks louder than words right..so just work it out!!!

Barczar · Post by **Barczar** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 2:53 pm

I'm just trying to figure out the whole "guys who ALLOW their gf to be stewardesses..." Control issues I'd say? Who are you that makes you think you can ALLOW a gf to do anything aside from what she wants? Unless of course you bought and paid for her on some slave market?...

Plavt · Post by **Plavt** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 5:31 pm

Ok folks, a little rant, some wind-ups, light-hearted humour is fine but can can we get back on topic?

The rant that was going on between toygirl and Awaiting_Sia has been sent to the Leisure, Jokes and Rubbish section.

Can we now get back to the topic without generating anymore animosity?

Plavt.

toygirl · Post by **toygirl** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 5:33 pm

Course you are at fault dear. You belligerently sent me another fancy PM again 1 min after you posted this on the mains. Please, for goodness sake. Move on!

toygirl · Post by **toygirl** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 5:38 pm

Well, to add further, I think you and your girlfriend should have a talk about it and share with her your fears and your thoughts. It's a 2 way street and I think you'll feel better talking to her then asking from a forum. I understand you may have fears but talk to her! Smile

Awaiting SIA - Animosity means in a nutshell, a bitter hostility or open enmity or active hatred?

Let's please move on!

guruvishwanath · Post by **guruvishwanath** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 6:08 pm

Wierd question, in my opinion! Just because you are a stewardess means you are free and easy? I so totally DONT think so. Its a job. Hard as hell. Imagine dealing with hundreds of passengers of all sorts and sundry and yet attempt to keep a cheerful demeanor! I have lots of admiration if you have to put up hours of crap. And believe me, I have seen crap being handed out by some real mean bastards!

Also, because I do have some very lovely friends. Gorgeous girls! and always nice to hang out with. They take life as it comes and enjoy as much as they can. In fact, if one of them were to be my girl, I would have no qualms about it. And yes! Trust is the key. But then is it not the key for ANY girlfriend? Where does it say that if your gal is a stewardess, she is more likely to stray?

Bottom line! any work is hard and any work will not stop people from straying, if they do have the capacity. Trust will always form the gate to making one from stepping out and doing something dumb

Plavt · Post by **Plavt** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 6:14 pm

guruvishwanath,

Exactly if one wants to control what occupation their girlfriend takes up how can they live with each other the day they are married? People whether in a relationship or not desire and are entitled to some privacy and freedom in their lives. Should you feel that you cannot trust your partner without invading every facet of her life then the relationship is over.

toygirl · Post by **toygirl** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 6:18 pm

Okay, it's similar to me dating a Specialist Registrar at a hospital and wondering whether any of the nursing staff or patients will sleep with him. I guess each of us have our little fears. However, I was assured after I realised he was posted to Geriatrics

but still....

guruvishwanath · Post by **guruvishwanath** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 6:20 pm

I agree.

Trust is not just implicit. Its explicit. And freedom to choose is also implicit. I have seen relationships go downhill faster than a rock in a lake due to trust issues.

No one can and must dictate to another person on what they must do. Unless of course, they are taking a turn into something stupid (like drugs, crime, cheating etc.). Its your duty to your partner to stop them from hitting the self destruct button. Because not only will they destruct, they will take a few with you.

Fortunately, I have not had that with any of my ex's. Trust was not why we had broken up.

There were other reasons but it was never about lack of trust.

princessPea · Post by **princessPea** » Tue, 31 Oct 2006 7:40 pm

hey guys,you'll have to have trust in ur girl or that might not work then.You know,some poeple want to achieve their dream.Don't ruin our dreams ok guys.We just want ya'll to have trust in us and believe that we wont go around and wander off with some rich lad ok.And mind you,if you think that way,then you are suggesting that we're some kind of cheap hostesses which we are not even close.No offence yah but do tak it as an advice yah

Jesey · Post by **Jesey** » Wed, 01 Nov 2006 5:13 pm

I totally agree please don't be stereotyping! If u see one who strays off for some rich lad, please.... that does not mean everyone is the same.

For you who really love your GF I suggest u should encourage her for what she believe she can acheive in this career. Thats make her feel even better, for your encouragement, support and care, definetly she will think twice if any rich lad wants to take away her from u.

And if things don't work out that way, should i say any girls has the right to chose who can really give her happiness! This depends on individuals who ask for true love and materlistic life.

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