No, this is not a requirement, it all depends on the reason / motivation for divorce and the duration of the marriage.Jumpshift wrote:Subsequently, my wife did a u-turn at last minute, and accepted "legal separation" (as the lawyers define it, meaning leaving separately and consulting appointed marriage counsellor on particular intervals). I understand this is a 'requirement' of Singapore divorce (?) - to be separated and counselled for a couple of years before the actual divorce. Happily, I can say that this year we decided that we can reconcile back again.
I hope the above can give you some insight, while it may not be exactly your situation.
There are several reasons for an instant divorce, for example "unreasonable behaviour" or others, but I assume this is not the time nor the moment to go into more details, just pointing out it is not a requirement.