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ATTENTION:GALS bcareful when called a gas tank deliver.

Postby ms fish » Wed, 20 Sep 2006 2:02 pm

This story happens to me.

I made a phone call to this GASH** Enter**ies company n asked for a L.P Gas to deliver to my house. after a while, the GASH** delivery man (a young guy, around 170cm tall n wearing a winter hat n slim ) has arrived n started to do his job as usual which are replaced the old gas tank to a new one. Suddenly the delivery man told me the GAS switch need to replace a new 1. so i just agreed as he said n he went down to his car n take a new GAS switch.This time i didnt realise that delivery man oledi unzipped his pant and went to the kitchen to continue his job. when he was doing his job(replace GAS switch and gas tank), his back is facing me n i also stand in the kitchen to monitor him do his work. After the delivery man finished his job n i also want to pay him the L.P gas fee. He stand up n i suddenly SHOCK of what he did. HE already planning unzip the pant from the beginning n want to flash HIS "THING". I just SHOCK n pretend didnt saw anything n also dont dare to shout for help because i might be in danger. so i just quickly pay the fee n ask him to leave from my house.


I want to speak out this story to everyone. especially gal where r alone in the house n called Gas tank deliver. I dont want another gal to become his victim again.
Please pass this story to every of ur friends no matter how old he or she is. thank you.



A victim from novena areas.

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Postby joop » Wed, 20 Sep 2006 4:08 pm

I think you should make a formal report to the police to investigate.
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Postby Plavt » Wed, 20 Sep 2006 4:10 pm

I find it very strange that somebody would be wearing a winter hat in Singapore, apart from that anybody with the least common sense would call the police instead of posting 'warnings' on a public forum.

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Postby lookeo » Wed, 20 Sep 2006 4:12 pm

sorry to hear about this happening to you.
Are u feeling much better already? hope so.

maybe the next time u need gas, try to get a male friend to be around, and get another company since this one employs "funny people".

I understand u might be scared at that point of time (and till now) , but the only way to really help yourself and others is to report to the police.

Anyway, am glad that you are here to let us know about this issue, because i seriously dont think it will have cross any of our mind that this type of thing will happen.

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Postby micknlea » Wed, 20 Sep 2006 5:21 pm

Report him, both to the company and the police.
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Postby Bremen » Thu, 21 Sep 2006 6:46 pm

Sounds like a hoax. Winter hat? In Singapore?
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Postby christoscy » Thu, 21 Sep 2006 7:31 pm

Oh come on people,i am not saying what he did was right,but bothering the police about such a stupid thing???
Just forget about it,if this person is really serious about molesting somebody he ll run into a wall soon.
I ll try been nicer if you try been smarter!!!

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Postby sundaymorningstaple » Thu, 21 Sep 2006 8:45 pm

christoscy wrote:Oh come on people,i am not saying what he did was right,but bothering the police about such a stupid thing???
Just forget about it,if this person is really serious about molesting somebody he ll run into a wall soon.


Boy you ARE a Newbie. What's she supposed to do? Wait until someone else gets raped or worse? There are enough pervs out there without having someone here defending their right to be a perv. She should report it to the police and even it's only to let them know and to let them know the company as well for investigation.

You were born yesterday right?

A winter hat here probably refers to a balaclava. Lost of guys wears them here trying to emulate the bro's back in the hood. Unfortunately they don't realize that they just don't have the natural cool of a bro to pull it off. They just end up looking silly.

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Postby earthfriendly » Fri, 22 Sep 2006 3:15 am

OP, I understand people will go thru the initial shock and the feeling may be so overpowering that it paralyses one from further action. But please report him to the police and the company. Who knows how many more victims he will prey on or worse on little kids.

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Postby christoscy » Fri, 22 Sep 2006 9:24 am

Balaclavas?Young kids???
Sorry if i sounded naive,i am new to Singapore and i thought the crime of the Century here was jay-walking!
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Postby ksl » Fri, 22 Sep 2006 10:40 am

christoscy wrote:Balaclavas?Young kids???
Sorry if i sounded naive,i am new to Singapore and i thought the crime of the Century here was jay-walking!


Christ you haven't seen anything yet then! Remember to check your noodle soup, for unidentified objects! It could be your next door neighbour!

I guess people here in Singapore are far too brainwashed by the government and i blame the government, for their lack of concern about safety.
I have experienced in shopping malls, Children left to do painting, while there parents have gone shopping. When i enquired out of curiosity if the woman was doing child minding, while the parents went shopping, I was shocked to hear, the answer no!

The parents believe it's so safe, they just leave their kids. I said " Then I suppose they will try to hold you responsible if anything happens" "what do you mean she said"
I tried to point out to her that Singapore is not exempt from perverts and child molesters, and this is just the ideal situation those misfits are looking for. I suggested, she warns the parents, that it wasn't a child care centre, and that she should charge extra if she is expected to baby sit, children, while the parents go site seeing!

This is one hell of a dangerous place, which is taken for granted! One day I had a weirdo follow me and my daughter for 3 km, got on the same bus, and tried giving her toys, to get friendly, in the end I found my space invaded, and had to say if you don't FO, i'll shove that toy, where the sun doesn't shine. I had to do a detour, so that the nutter couldn't see which childcare centre i was going to.

One may think I'm paranoid, but i put it down to experience of life! and to think that perverts don't exsist next door to where you live, is the biggest mistake anyone can make.

I get quite annoyed, when i hear kids call strangers uncle, or auntie and have explained to my own daughter, that i do not want her, to call any stranger uncle or auntie, it sends out a very wrong message to children in my opinion, when there are preditors in every Country.

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Postby Plavt » Fri, 22 Sep 2006 4:01 pm

With respect Ksl as you are not unjustified showing concerns for children but much of abuse of children and the danger of perverts has been hyped up by our old friends the media. Most child abuse committed in the UK has been committed by parents and relatives of the children involved not by complete strangers.

This is something that really bugs me as a bachelor I sometimes find a finger being pointed at me simply because I live alone and there have been similar instances where people have been attacked rather grossly for no justified reason.

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Postby ksl » Fri, 22 Sep 2006 4:49 pm

Plavt wrote:With respect Ksl as you are not unjustified showing concerns for children but much of abuse of children and the danger of perverts has been hyped up by our old friends the media. Most child abuse committed in the UK has been committed by parents and relatives of the children involved not by complete strangers.

This is something that really bugs me as a bachelor I sometimes find a finger being pointed at me simply because I live alone and there have been similar instances where people have been attacked rather grossly for no justified reason.


I beg to correct you here Plavt old boy, because In the UK, going back to the 70's however, the prison service, government and councils had a conspiracy organised, Whereby all council housing was to be sold off, now to do this, a particular area in each Town, City had to be designated a dumping ground for all the misfits, homeless, mentally ill, ex cons. I know because my housing estate, was chosen for this purpose, and no matter how the local councils refute this. You will find a systematic disposal area of one or two housing estates, with a very high percentage of ex cons and perverts.

Try to search the infamous Ryelands estate, the Mal hussien case, a case totally neglected bylaw and order for over 15 years. Morecame was a dumping ground for perverst, let out of prison and housed right across the road from the school, these cons, also socialised with the shit on Ryelands estate, whereby many children were molested over years, and traumatised by threats, not to mention to anyone.

I'm afraid I have to disagree, with your assumptions of the trueth, because I have been raised in this type of area, and I have had first hand experience to many confrontation of perverts molesting children in our area.

Although I will agree, that some parents are involved in some cases, my point is, that time spent in the nick, with the wrong people, doesn't help when they get relocated, the ones in for sex offences, are altogether, when they get home or rehoused, they have just widened their horizon of crime, most of these preditors work togther, they are misfits that help eachother out for their sick perversions. and in UK thses so called perverts you have not yet had the misfortune to meet, may one day, be invited in your own home has a trusted friend, or your kids, actually playing with other harmless kids, that are abused every day, and its been there way of life.

One deosn't find out the real horror stories until it's to late, your child could be playing with a victim of everyday abuse, and you would not know it, when the child invites, your child to their home, it all starts, and it could go years before it is detected.

I am quite close to someone that was abused by neighbours, as a 6 year old, he is 23 yrs old today and has never recovered from the oreal, but i worry, that this person may also become the offender! If you get my drift.

I'm afraid no matter where i have lived, I have seen large well organised child molesting, even in Denamrk it was all well organised and took many years before the lid came off, only 3km from where i lived.

Lets just say, that i never drop my guard over my daughter! BTW my investment in my mothers house, went from a value of 65,000 in 1988 to zero rate in 1998 because of government policy, After 25 years of ownership, I had to let it go for next to nothing, because the council refused to buy back, yet Mal Hussien walks away with 180,000 pound to move off the estate!

I'm quite sure that Mal Hussien would back me up, about the scandelous behavour of Lancaster City Council and the Lanashire Chief of Police. But like you say they have to dump the misfits someplace. It's how they went about it that bolis my blood. Today is slightly different, because the Police Chief of Lancashire was held resposible and was forced to appologise.

Everyone new Mal Hussien would be paid off, because of the publicty support he had from racial organisations, and his meeting with Nelson Mandela. My point is, that no department in UK is trust worthy within the government structure. Core Government responsibility is moved to local councils, decentralised so that government could get away with the selling of council house, without any come back.

These criminals should be integrated into society fairly, and dispersed throught society, but this was never to be.

This is something that really bugs me as a bachelor I sometimes find a finger being pointed at me simply because I live alone and there have been similar instances where people have been attacked rather grossly for no justified reason.


I sympathise with you on this point, and with the attacks on innocent people, bbut what does it tell you, these incidents are real, children are abused daily, by strangers, that get friendly with parents of children, or the parents may be abusers and part of a group.

It tells me not to take any chance whatsoever, with my daughters welfare!
I don't believe this is an over reaction on my part, I would say, those that are not aware of the facts andsurroundings, will become victims to preditors.

I agree the media does make a meal of it, but rather that, than pretend a Country is safe.
I can tell you, there isn't many days go by here, without a murder or someone being pushed under a train, or out of a blk of flats, and the scandel of the muslim father that was having sex with all his children.

So this place doesn't make it any safer than anywhere else, it's just not talked about so much or exposed yet.

I did have some interesting statistics on Singapore, recording over 200,000, criminal activities by foreigners coming into Singapore, many of them re-offenders, trying to get in on different passports over the last 5 years, they all have criminal backgrounds and will be refused entry, but it doesn't stop the criminal trying to get in.

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Postby Plavt » Fri, 22 Sep 2006 6:03 pm

Not saying I don't believe you but the instance you quote above is experience specific to yourself and those unfortunate enough to live on the Ryelands estate.

Although there are cases of strangers abusing children the majority are not, the goverment and the police's own statistics tell you that.
Access to figures regarding the true number of murders child abuse in Singapore I do not have and I not sure the Singapore government would be willing to publish them either.

That said I am not suprised a good deal of offences are committed by foreigners in Singapore, that's a common 'stunt' anywhere else.

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Postby ksl » Fri, 22 Sep 2006 7:22 pm

Plavt wrote:Not saying I don't believe you but the instance you quote above is experience specific to yourself and those unfortunate enough to live on the Ryelands estate.

Although there are cases of strangers abusing children the majority are not, the goverment and the police's own statistics tell you that.
Access to figures regarding the true number of murders child abuse in Singapore I do not have and I not sure the Singapore government would be willing to publish them either.

That said I am not suprised a good deal of offences are committed by foreigners in Singapore, that's a common 'stunt' anywhere else.

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Although there are cases of strangers abusing children the majority are not,


Of course this is very true! My point is the fact that, familiarity by preditors, is the main goal for the offence, be it family or starngers, and the statistics probably show friends of the family, rather than strangers, because it appears to be a socialised molestation rather than a kidnapping and assualt. which do you think the pervert would choose to go down for if caught, and I believe this is the only reason!

The sexual preditor after a time inside, does get to meet like minded criminals, that feed off the horror stories of other victims, it's a cliche of sick throwbacks, that never change, but yeah everyone as the right to a life, just castrate them them, after all what does World Human rights stand for! I see it as doing them a favour to leading a near to normal life, without their nuts!

However some cannot hold back their sexual lust and kidnap, to assault, or assault and run. it is still a crime that revolts me.

I have a tendancy to believe that victims grow up, to be abusers, and therefore should be kept an eye on, all though I have no evidence to back this, it is my opinion.

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