that's right boy, you agree with everything i say and we'll get along just fine.sundaymorningstaple wrote:I have to agree with you on both paragraphs.![]()

i like your "bollocks". it goes easy on my ear. "bullocks" just doesn't cut it, maybe it the american version and i always liked the english version of the word. it has such a nice ring to it. bollocks!micknlea wrote:My answer to this is "bollocks"...a man does not truly love his wife if he cheats on her in any way shape or form. It is the same both ways. Obviously there is something wrong. As for the temptation here, I agree with the OP. OK , yes it happens everywhere else, but for some reason here in Asia it is more rampant, more open and more "acceptable" not only from the local point of view, but also from the expat point of view. Sorry, so many experiences (friends etc) of it that all the excuses have worn thin.

agree that it's wrong. i don't think that is in question. but i'm starting to believe that a man who cheats on his wife can still love her, maybe not 'truly' love her as you say, but he can still love her. i've seen this too many times to deny the possibility.
ironlady wrote:Maybe you can meet up with me and judge my level of English.
looks like EADG got himself a date!

(oops, just saw his reply above. ah there goes a potentially linguistically satisfying union.)