vastly better, in my opinion. the mars / venus book if i remember correctly is full of suggestions on what you could do and only cursorily on understanding how the other gender functions. this book actually helps you understand the other gender's thinking rather than give a to-do list and this understanding will guide you in deciding your actions. for me the latter sinks in much better.Lost wrote:sometimes I think the boys in men never mature to adulthood - they still need a mom at old age. Is the book similar to Mens from Mars and Women from Venus ?