Whammy, much as you expressed your disdain for the "average Singaporean" on the mistreated maids forum, SGeans are very compassionate people. It is not easy to see this side of us though as many do act corkily. I remember someone specifically pointed out the SGean Chinese being nastier ones. He does have a point. Do not expect nice pleasantries and the Chinese to go all out to be friendly or sociable but if you live within their circle and interact with them at a deep level, you will see the their true nature. We are very reserve people, not so much a talk-it-out verbal cultures but more about action. Somebody I dated 10 years ago is now in financial dire strait and coming to me asking for help, which I offered him. With his large circle of friends, I asked him why me and was quite pleased with his response. By the way, he is white American.Wham wrote:This is just a tad off topic, but i have been seeing a lot of tv ads and articles on the rehaibiltation efforts that are made in Singapore for those convicted or various offenses, and i find it so admirable. Most people only hear about how harsh the laws are here without having any idea of the efforts that are apparently made to re-habilitate the convicted. I think it is a MUCH better approach then the one we have in the US which leans more toward incarcerate and forget. Would guess the same would apply to sex offenders here.
Please refrain from smooth characterisation of Chinese, there is no such 'true' nature. Not losing face is all that matters, nothing else. No integrity, not kindness, just not losing their faces, that's it, period.earthfriendly wrote:I remember someone specifically pointed out the SGean Chinese being nastier ones. He does have a point. Do not expect nice pleasantries and the Chinese to go all out to be friendly or sociable but if you live within their circle and interact with them at a deep level, you will see the their true nature. We are very reserve people, not so much a talk-it-out verbal cultures but more about action.
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