Would you keep your virginity till marriage?

Vaucluse · Post by **Vaucluse** » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 11:40 am

vaishali wrote:*Watches the post slowly degenerate*

How old are you if I may ask?

Carbon dating has put SMS' age at anywhere between 55 years and 4,983,545 years.

Some of his opinions, however, stem from the dark ages.

madwolfie · Post by **madwolfie** » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 11:52 am

You mean, he managed to "grow" up right to the age of 55? Thought he never did grew up... hmmm hmmm...

Post by **sundaymorningstaple** » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 11:59 am

Vaucluse wrote:
vaishali wrote:*Watches the post slowly degenerate*

How old are you if I may ask?

Carbon dating has put SMS' age at anywhere between 55 years and 4,983,545 years.

Some of his opinions, however, stem from the dark ages.

Fortunately, it's not an exact science

but I think vaishali was asking LisaLicious not me? But I have to say you are in the ballpark!

Vaucluse · Post by **Vaucluse** » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 2:28 pm

Which number?

Post by **sundaymorningstaple** » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 2:50 pm

Vaucluse wrote:Which number?

Hopefully the former? although some here (you and my nemesis put me in the Dark Ages? Not a history buff so how old would that make me? Like the Highlander?

Vaucluse · Post by **Vaucluse** » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 2:52 pm

Let's just say - - - crispy!

Bubbles · Post by **Bubbles** » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 9:49 pm

Whilst I appreciate the fact that some people think of 'virginity' as a treasure, surely in this day and age it's something so highly overated and of very little consequence in modern day societies?

If it is insisted on in any society or by any religion, it is usually aimed at the women of the species, and not at the man. This is surely an old fashioned way of holding their 'society' in check by frowning on the woman, and ensuring that they know their place?

What a big hoohah about nothing. I'm sorry, I really believe it's an grossly blown up 'gift.'

Keep it if YOU want to, but don't think it makes you anymore special, or others any less special, than you. It is simply a biological choice and will not make you any better a person, or any less.

Whyever should we be applauding the fact that someone has not had sex before marriage? Or indeed, why throw our hands up in joy if they've slept around?

I don't see the point in all this, surely grown up people, i.e. over 18, make their own choices for themselves, and not to prove anything to anyone else?

LisaLicious · Post by **LisaLicious** » Sun, 18 Dec 2005 12:05 am

seriously beginning to dig bubs!!

riversandlakes · Post by **riversandlakes** » Sun, 18 Dec 2005 12:51 am

But biologically there IS a piece of tissue there, unlike man (where will the tissue go?). Doesn't that make you wonder why things are the way they are? What did God intended?

Post by **sundaymorningstaple** » Sun, 18 Dec 2005 1:26 am

riversandlakes wrote:But biologically there IS a piece of tissue there, unlike man (where will the tissue go?). Doesn't that make you wonder why things are the way they are? What did God intended?

If you follow that logic then men and women wouldn't have pierced ears and everywhere else would they? Additionally, no men would be circumsized either would they?

Next.

asiandivergal · Post by **asiandivergal** » Sun, 18 Dec 2005 5:16 pm

My first love and boyfriend was a virgin...and so was I then when I dated with him. We were together for 6 years, and the closest we got down to getting hot and sweaty was in my bedroom when my parents were out (don't forget that typical young Singaporean Asian women do not move into their own apartments and actually live with their parents till they get married).

We were in Uni and we really wanted do, but both of us came from the traditional family background which advocates the "Wait Till You're Married" mantra, so we managed to hold on with much discipline

We didn't even do it when I moved in with him together to our own apartment when I started working! Cohabitating without sex - impossible! You say. But it really happened. And I guess we got rather tired out after a long day at work - i was fighting corporate s*** while he was always wrecking his brains out on "his software project design" blah blah. And after you've been together for 6 years without sex, it just fell by the side. It felt like living with a brother. Or a gay friend.

I was really saving it for our marriage. There were already plans on the table for the wedding day and honeymoon. That's what I thought. And I really loved this guy. That's what I thought too.

Then I met an Irish weasel one rainy and drunken night (sorry to all Irish here, it's nothing personal I promise), and fell in lust with him. I think I lost my virginity to him that night - I'm not too sure, coz everything was in a daze though I vaguely remembered telling him many many times that night: no going all the way, mind you.

In the end I ended my first relationship coz I just had no sexual feelings towards him, and couldn't imagine waking up next to him for the next 50 years of my life.

So would I still have done the same and saved my virginity until marriage? Probably not, coz if I really loved him (and lusted after him), there's no way we could even wait. But if my love is a virgin and he wanted to wait till we're married, I would REALLY respect him and admire him for his discipline and strong will - and tempt him with sexy lingerie and no underwear on our dates out, leading up to the marriage date

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