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Postby jaz_collections » Fri, 16 Dec 2005 9:01 pm

In the midst of sensual and pleasure-seeking, virginity is lost!

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Postby sundaymorningstaple » Fri, 16 Dec 2005 9:36 pm

This is also considered art. Only actual difference in ability that I see is that this one was painted by Koko the Gorilla.

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Postby Vaucluse » Fri, 16 Dec 2005 10:08 pm

Mary Hatch Bailey wrote:
Vaucluse wrote:Philistines Eric, nothing but a bunch of philistines . . .


Or a decidedly strange sense of appropriateness... :shock:


Well, I don't like it too much either but art is certainly a matter of taste. I quite like SMS' attached painting and wouldn't care if it was painted by Matisse, Goya or Koko the Gorilla.

How's that for a balanced reply? Have I regained my holier-than-thou status? :wink:
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Re: Would you keep your virginity till marriage?

Postby LisaLicious » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 1:02 am

emiko08 wrote:how many of you do actually keep your virginity till marriage?

in the bible, it is considered a sin for having sex before marriage.


i am still a virgin and proud of it. :lol: though i admit, its hard esp when you have a boyfriend who is not a virgin. and its hard in the heat of the moment.
its all in the mind and up to the individual themselves to lose it.

i use to think that i would keep it for the person called husband.

but now, when i review myself honestly, i decided that, the time will come when i would willingly lose my virginity to the person whom i think should be the person enjoying making love with me. so, till then, i shall just take my time and enjoy other activities.

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Re: Would you keep your virginity till marriage?

Postby dot dot dot » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 1:29 am

LisaLicious wrote:
emiko08 wrote:how many of you do actually keep your virginity till marriage?

in the bible, it is considered a sin for having sex before marriage.


i am still a virgin and proud of it. :lol: though i admit, its hard esp when you have a boyfriend who is not a virgin. and its hard in the heat of the moment.
its all in the mind and up to the individual themselves to lose it.

i use to think that i would keep it for the person called husband.

but now, when i review myself honestly, i decided that, the time will come when i would willingly lose my virginity to the person whom i think should be the person enjoying making love with me. so, till then, i shall just take my time and enjoy other activities.


you certainly make me laugh here...

love your innocence girl! :D

Eric

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Re: Would you keep your virginity till marriage?

Postby LisaLicious » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 1:51 am

Eric from the Netherlands wrote:
LisaLicious wrote:
emiko08 wrote:how many of you do actually keep your virginity till marriage?

in the bible, it is considered a sin for having sex before marriage.


i am still a virgin and proud of it. :lol: though i admit, its hard esp when you have a boyfriend who is not a virgin. and its hard in the heat of the moment.
its all in the mind and up to the individual themselves to lose it.

i use to think that i would keep it for the person called husband.

but now, when i review myself honestly, i decided that, the time will come when i would willingly lose my virginity to the person whom i think should be the person enjoying making love with me. so, till then, i shall just take my time and enjoy other activities.


you certainly make me laugh here...

love your innocence girl! :D

Eric


omg.. ur mocking me now, arent you
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Postby dot dot dot » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 2:14 am

nope, not at all Lisa...

I find this just very amusing: "... lose my virginity to the person whom i think should be the person enjoying making love with me. so, till then, i shall just take my time and enjoy other activities."

You say you lose your virginity to the person you will enjoy making love with? Chicken egg story?

In the meantime you play cards with him?

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Postby vaishali » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 2:17 am

[quote="In the meantime you play cards with him?

Eric[/quote]

ROFL!!!!!!! I have to admit Lisa, I thought that sentence of yours was slightly dubious ;)
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Postby LisaLicious » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 2:19 am

lol... of course not... hmm how do i put it across...


its more of like.. when the time comes, then i will lose it to him. but in order for that to happen, there have got to be signs and trusted instinct to tell me whether should i go for the plunge or not...

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Postby dot dot dot » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 2:21 am

Lisa,

it takes practice to become a specialist and enjoy the art of lovemaking I guess?

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Postby LisaLicious » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 2:21 am

vaishali wrote:[quote="In the meantime you play cards with him?

Eric


ROFL!!!!!!! I have to admit Lisa, I thought that sentence of yours was slightly dubious ;)[/quote]

it seems that way huh..... lol ... :P
well i did try to put it across clearer.. the one i replied to Eric

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Postby LisaLicious » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 2:23 am

Eric from the Netherlands wrote:Lisa,

it takes practice to become a specialist and enjoy the art of lovemaking I guess?

Eric



if u look at it that way i guess... im not sure.... part of me telling me.... no rush. dont have to do it yet. let nature takes its own course. part of me tells me... do it. taste it. be a whore. ride him *ok lets not get too detailed* but yeah.... weird stuff

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Postby vaishali » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 2:25 am

*Watches the post slowly degenerate* ;)

How old are you if I may ask?
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Postby riversandlakes » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 4:17 am

Do not try to bend the spoon - that's impossible...

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Postby sundaymorningstaple » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 10:53 am

vaishali wrote:*Watches the post slowly degenerate* ;)

How old are you if I may ask?


Interesting question. How is it relevant? Is there a use by date stamped on it? Seriously though, why would age, as long as one is legally above the age of consent, have a bearing on it? My MiL got married at 14 (1st child also at 14-arranged marriage) This makes my MiL only 14 years older than my wife. She was married to him until he died 3 years ago (55 years of marriage). Was she too young? I've been married 3 times now, 21, 28 and 36. No I didn't keep mine for any of them, neither did any of my wives. is that why they (well 2 anyway) failed? I don't really think so, but that's another story. been married 23 years now to the current one.

Frankly, I am opposed to the virginity until married thing. (Unless it's my daughter! :mrgreen: ) I actually worry though, even in her case, cause what happens when you buy a car without test driving it? Buying a home, Making a huge investment. You want to eliminate as many of the unknown variables as possible to ensure a good investment. And that's what a marriage is, an investment. Maybe moreso here than in the west although today I doubt it. Not sure how many westerners today marry for love anymore either.

What happens if the physical part of a new marriage is substandard or unacceptable? What happens if the guy is a pervert or worse, or the girl is frigid? While physical intimacy is not necessary in the long run, it is highly important in the short term (maybe the most important!)

Nah, think I would always want a test drive but don't want a vehicle that been test driven by too many though! (has to be a low mileage version) :mrgreen:


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