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Re: Do you believe in soulmates?

Postby vaishali » Mon, 12 Dec 2005 11:34 pm

emiko08 wrote:Do anyone of you here believe in soulmates?

If you do, do you think you´ve already found him/her? :)


I think there are such things as soul mates, people you have tons in common with, and can be yourself around them no matter what, no pretenses.

I married my soul mate, so I'm happy :)

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Re: Do you believe in soulmates?

Postby emiko08 » Wed, 14 Dec 2005 7:33 pm

vaishali wrote:
I think there are such things as soul mates, people you have tons in common with, and can be yourself around them no matter what, no pretenses.

I married my soul mate, so I'm happy :)


:P :P :P you married your soulmate? congrats! :)

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Postby riversandlakes » Wed, 14 Dec 2005 9:10 pm

To the OP, so you wish :P

Declared me as a soulmate, even until the end of her last letter, which the b!tch signed off with "Forever Your Soulmate."

Oolala! 8)
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But the world is full of fluffier ones.

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Re: Do you believe in soulmates?

Postby vaishali » Thu, 15 Dec 2005 1:59 am

emiko08 wrote:
vaishali wrote:
I think there are such things as soul mates, people you have tons in common with, and can be yourself around them no matter what, no pretenses.

I married my soul mate, so I'm happy :)


:P :P :P you married your soulmate? congrats! :)


Yeh, quite happy about that ;)

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Postby LuvWurking » Thu, 15 Dec 2005 10:04 am

I believe in soulmates in that there are people in this world that you can have an extrordinary connection and affinity for. I don't believe in the concept of one and only in that its a very big world and there are probably lots of people you can have a soul mate connection with.

I have found someone I think is a soul mate and I love that person deeply. He is the one for me, but alot of it had to do with right time and place as well. So yes to sourlmates but no to only one in the world.

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Postby riversandlakes » Thu, 15 Dec 2005 11:28 pm

Keeping an open mind means seeing it at least both ways. Being determined that this or that hunk/babe is mine "foreva" is just taking high risks of being hurt.

I think the soulmate thing is transient...
Goatboy will always cherish his former goatgirl.

But the world is full of fluffier ones.

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Postby Jun » Fri, 16 Dec 2005 12:07 pm

Hiyaaa...

i'm totally agreed with Bubbs, Kimi and LuvWurking....

Riversandlakes, If you never taking risks of being hurt you will never know the outcome....just my two cents :wink:
Happiness is a daily decision.

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Postby riversandlakes » Fri, 16 Dec 2005 10:15 pm

Thanks Jun. But I was really saying that - take the risks and realize that your current "soulmate" might turn out not to be one?

So the term is transient...
Or your soulmate for today will not be your soulmate in 3 years' time - your ideals may change.
Goatboy will always cherish his former goatgirl.

But the world is full of fluffier ones.

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Postby madwolfie » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 9:31 am

So there's no soulmates forever...the cycle goes on

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Postby sundaymorningstaple » Sat, 17 Dec 2005 10:37 am

madwolfie wrote:So there's no soulmates forever...the cycle goes on


I had a few solemates. one fell overboard, one wore out, lost a left one once. normally both soles wear out at the same time. :mrgreen:

Hopefully, I would never marry a soulmate. I would think that a marriage to someone who thinks, feels and acts exactly the same would be boring after a while. Marriage is supposed to be a journey. If you see everything the same way, what journey? Would also make for boring conversation if you always agreed. Matter of fact, it would eliminate conversation if you thought alike wouldn't it?

Thank goodness for cycles and viva la difference!

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Postby Jun » Mon, 19 Dec 2005 4:29 pm

sundaymorningstaple wrote: Marriage is supposed to be a journey. If you see everything the same way, what journey? Would also make for boring conversation if you always agreed. Matter of fact, it would eliminate conversation if you thought alike wouldn't it?
Thank goodness for cycles and viva la difference!

so its...agree to disagree or disagree to agree??? :D
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Postby kk_lass » Wed, 21 Dec 2005 7:20 pm

To love or not to love..
Soulmate or not soulmate..
I guess if you never try and find out, u will never know..
Unless it is an obvious NO NO .. otherwise, others need more seeking, observation...etc

Define soulmate... :-s

Jun wrote:Hiyaaa...

i'm totally agreed with Bubbs, Kimi and LuvWurking....

Riversandlakes, If you never taking risks of being hurt you will never know the outcome....just my two cents :wink:
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Postby riversandlakes » Thu, 22 Dec 2005 2:34 am

A soulmate is someone who makes you truly happy.
Goatboy will always cherish his former goatgirl.

But the world is full of fluffier ones.

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Postby kk_lass » Thu, 22 Dec 2005 10:12 am

riversandlakes wrote:A soulmate is someone who makes you truly happy.


:-s
Not someone whom u love?
Or someone who love you??
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Postby Vaucluse » Thu, 22 Dec 2005 10:20 am

I'd agree with kk_lass here, but there must be more than love - can't quite describe it, but it transcends love, it's also a meeting of minds, I guess.
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