Would anyone fall for a guy who...

[wildboar]

Would anyone fall for a guy who has just recover from cancer and loom with uncertainties in the future of another attack from the diease.

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How can you answer this one...

Eric

[Mary Hatch Bailey]

Of course, this is the basis for every movie on the Hallmark channel!

[wildboar]

I dun know , just wanna find out if the guy or girl would still fall in love with the opp even if he or she has a history of cancer......

[Mary Hatch Bailey]

Everyone has 'skeletons in the closet.' Why should you be different?

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Did they open a can of worms tonite here or what?

Eric

[wildboar]

I mean would you fall for a guy who has cancer and the prognosis of 50%. It may sound like a bizarre qns...had this thought for sometime as my colleague got this terrible disease at the age of 30....

[Mary Hatch Bailey]

Did they open a can of worms tonite here or what?

Eric

Or perhaps a can of 'WhoopAss'?

[wildboar]

Sometime I find the ppl in this forum can be quite humorous...

[Em Eye]

Can you choose to fall in love or not?

Doesn't the saying go something like "it's better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all?" (excuse me if it's not word for word)

Or the you could fall in love and live happily ever after...

[sapphire]

Wildboar, I think Em Eye more or less answered your question - Better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all.

[Rose_YG]

Would anyone fall for a guy who has just recover from cancer and loom with uncertainties in the future of another attack from the diease.

If someone ask this question and be in this situation, then i think it's not love. Love is unconditional.

[Bremen]

I mean would you fall for a guy who has cancer and the prognosis of 50%. It may sound like a bizarre qns...had this thought for sometime as my colleague got this terrible disease at the age of 30....

I think this is a very sad way to think, and not at all indicative of love. Without trying to start something here, but really, it sounds like a very Singaporean way to think. Very materialistic somehow. Like your love to a person is tied to financial stability and long marriage, rather than an honest, all-consuming love.


Side note: I've actually been in a Coffee Bean one time and overheard a group of young girls pressuring their friend to break up with her bf because he has/had a heart condition. One line that almost made me toss my coffee over my shoulder in their general direction was: "How you can love him lah? He can't work hard one, weak heart, can't pay for shopping and car. Better break up lah, go with (some chinese name i can't remember), him healthy one, sure work hard leh!"

[KT]

This is hilarious , one for the record books ... Anyway Mike , you really should have thrown the coffee over !!!

Side note: I've actually been in a Coffee Bean one time and overheard a group of young girls pressuring their friend to break up with her bf because he has/had a heart condition. One line that almost made me toss my coffee over my shoulder in their general direction was: "How you can love him lah? He can't work hard one, weak heart, can't pay for shopping and car. Better break up lah, go with (some chinese name i can't remember), him healthy one, sure work hard leh!"

[Bremen]

This is hilarious , one for the record books ... Anyway Mike , you really should have thrown the coffee over !!!

Would have been an awful waste of coffee.


Now, boiling hot water would have been a different matter...