Everything INDIAN but the guys... [feedback pls]

[bigcalin]

I had a friend (Chinese) who was in a relationship with an Indian expat, fastforward a year later - they were talking about settling down. The girl was even seriously thinking of converting to his faith. Then he went home for one month and came back married.

Apparently his mother had a bride all ready waiting for him and he didn't have the heart to break his mummy's heart. My poor friend was left with a broken heart.

Are arrange marriage still the norm among Indian expats?

[madwolfie]

As much as time & technology has advanced, indians are still very much traditional at heart. Arranged marraiges are often pushed onto them by their parents & relatives.

Still, the only responsible thing to do is not to lead anyone on.

Hope your friend is healing well and send her a big hug for me on my behalf. Guess we would be considered travellers of the same path once...

[bigcalin]

Thankfully she came out of it .....slimmer but stronger. She is happily married now to a lovely guy. Hugs to you too!

[madwolfie]

LOL Send my regards to her Its always nice to hear good news...

[bigcalin]

Actually I have a good friend who is still single, a few friends and I are on the lookout for eligible Indian guys that we could introduce to her. So madwolfie, wanna introduce your friend? Just tell him that he will have to impress us first

[madwolfie]

Sure, I could. Though... why only Indian guys? [curious]

[bigcalin]

Firstly...this thread is about Indian guys.
Secondly...She is Indian (local) and her family is quite conservative (makes things simple) althought I am sure she would not mind any other race since she is quite open-minded.

[madwolfie]

Firstly...this thread is about Indian guys.
Secondly...She is Indian (local) and her family is quite conservative (makes things simple) althought I am sure she would not mind any other race since she is quite open-minded.

Alright Shall find some eligible "bachelors" and group together for a meet-up session then. What about yourself?

[bigcalin]

I went down the same road too!
His mother made him choose me or his inheritance
Obviously he didn't pick me...but he wanted to hang on to me on the side. So I "borrow" a friend's fling just to make him understand that I was SO-OVER him but I ended up marrying my alibi

What's your story morning glory?

[madwolfie]

I went down the same road too!
His mother made him choose me or his inheritance
Obviously he didn't pick me...but he wanted to hang on to me on the side. So I "borrow" a friend's fling just to make him understand that I was SO-OVER him but I ended up marrying my alibi

What's your story morning glory?

Story... if you'd like to hear. Check your PM Pretty much a sad story too. But c'est la vie, life goes on, ain't it?

[bigcalin]

Strange, I got an email saying That I got a private mail but my inbox is empty? Guess I will never know the story now

[madwolfie]

hey .. if you have MSN... just add me to yours or my email's at madwolfie@gmail.com

[Scorpion]

Hey, can i check in..

What part of story is going on now,,

[madwolfie]

uerm... my mushy life story... Thought we were supposed to talk over coffee on this as well...

yeh hai zindagi yaar...

[Scorpion]

My mail z not 2 working..

i sent a mail, which is not in my sent or outbox

madwolfie.. did u c some demons around