I'm a little confused and was wondering if I could get some advice from you good people here in the forum...
I've been reading more than writing so far.
Say if you like a guy who also has been sending promising signals, but then end up liking another girl more seemingly, what I was thinking is just to wait and see.
The way I see it, if the guy does like a woman very much, even if he were a shy guy, even though it doesn't seem he is, he would at least in one point to be more assertive about it and ask me out, just like what any other normal guy would do, wouldn't it?
Call it a woman's insecurity or something like that, I'm not sure myself, but I suppose after realizing he most likely likes another woman more, which of course it's not anybody's fault as this kind of thing just happens just like that, I feel I should just give up being active in sending signals from my part and I guess just have the waiting game...
Plus, it just looks futile to try to make somebody who doesn't find you a date material strongly for him, to see the other way around, as probably that is not going to happen anyway, isn't it?
I admit I can see how he would like the other woman more, as they have more things in common, which again why I think it's futile to try to make the other person see the other way, as I think I'm not going to be that interested either in these things they are interested in, just a matter of different interests, not saying they are bad hobbies nor anything like that...
What would you do if you were in my shoes?
