About a year back, I caught my husband professing his undying love for a colleague at work while I was heavily pregnant with my second child. When confronted he says that he has a crush on her, but it was not a big deal as they didn't do anything. I suspect it was more because the girl was already attached and was just enjoying all the additional emotional attention from my bloke. A year on, I find it hard to trust him as there are still signs that he is restless, visiting date forums on the web and receiving and sending rather dubious emails. The thing that frustrates me is that there was absolutely no indication he was the sort that had a roving eye when we first got together many, many years back.
I will like your opinions as to if I should stick by him and hope that it is a passing phase (though the idiot is already 34) or if he is wasting my time and I am deluding myself into thinking that he will change.
