I have now come to realise that we are all ruled by exception. Our upbringing, the society and surroundings contribute on how we think, act and percieve others. So when I was a growing kid and a teenager and an adult, the notion and perception that Islam was radical and they promoted breeding without control, polygamy etc. Christians were rich and it was a religion of the rich and all white people were christian. Sounds ridiculous! Believe me when I say that these are the ideas I grew up with. So where does Hinduisim stand? The biggest misconception is that Hinduism is not a religion but a way of life. But then as with other religions, it was hijacked by some fanatics and charlatans who turned into a mockery. In the end it resulted in segregation in form of casteism. Yep! that is the Indian version of racism except it is not based on color but on your lineage. And this exists back in India.
I come from a Brahmin family. The highest class amongst the rest of the caste system. The priviledged ones. Unlike my friends parents, I had very progressive parents and I am always grateful for that. They did not enforce those rigid idealogies into my head. They encouraged me to mix and mingle. To learn about others. In a sense to learn what is it being a Muslim, Christian and a Sikh. So I took part in all festivals. Id, Easter, Christmas etc. to name a few. I had friends and we shared a common passion. Cricket! And that in itself is a religion in India. I fasted with my best friend during Ramzaan to experience what it is not to eat and drink water the whole day and pray. My mom told me quite clearly that if I was going to do the fast, then I have to complete it. Because if I abandon it half way, then I am insulting my friend and his beliefs. I thought a lot about it before I went through with it. It was hard and tough as I was not used to starving during the day and waking up at 4:00 AM to have food before sunrise. and having a quick dinner at 7:00 PM. Not to mention no water and you cant swallow.
During Christmas, I took part in preparing the church for the pass with my friends. I studied in a Catholic School. I am my the god father to my friends daughter and I was given a discourse on the importance of being a god father and the responsibilities it carries.
In end, I came to a strong realisation. Religion is a private matter. My legacy as a person will be judged by my actions and not by my religion. When I die, I would like to be known as man with principles, honesty and generosity. I dont see which religion has exclusive rights to the above characteristics.
Faith is important. Faith in your religion is your guiding light and it does not matter to which faith you belong to. You must also respect others irrespective as to what faith they belong to.
Have a great day