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Men vs Boob Jobs

Postby SunshineGal » Mon, 08 Aug 2005 11:18 am

I'm actually wondering what do men think of boob jobs.

Not really referring to women who go to extreme ends and get a boob job that looks like she's got 2 big watermelons in front. But of women who just do it to get a decent size, like a full B.

If any male is reading this, please share your thoughts. I'm thinking of getting a boob job in 5 yrs or so (gotta save up) because I'm really really flat (think double-A cup) and my decision has NOTHING to do with guys.
I just want to buy bras properly instead of hiding behind the teenage section/Bee Dees/sports bras, so please don't start off with a lecture of how I should treasure my body etc.

I've been around this forum enough to know that bust salons don't work, neither do pills, and surgery is my last option. However, if the general opinion is that guys simply cannot stand boob jobs, then I will re-consider my decision.

Ladies who've gone for boob jobs, do share your experiences too! Did your men enjoy the bedding better?

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Postby cyber_m0nkey » Mon, 08 Aug 2005 11:26 am

I'm not a big fan of boob jobs, I prefer the real thing - There is certainly a size that is too big, but I don't think there is a too small.

Having said that, I think that most men prefer a girl with high self-confidence. So if that is what it takes to give you the self-confidence, then go for it.


But remember, anything less then a moutfull is not enough and anything more then a handfull is too much - anything in between is perfect! :wink:

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Re: Men vs Boob Jobs

Postby briceloh » Mon, 08 Aug 2005 11:33 am

SunshineGal wrote:I'm actually wondering what do men think of boob jobs.

Not really referring to women who go to extreme ends and get a boob job that looks like she's got 2 big watermelons in front. But of women who just do it to get a decent size, like a full B.

If any male is reading this, please share your thoughts. I'm thinking of getting a boob job in 5 yrs or so (gotta save up) because I'm really really flat (think double-A cup) and my decision has NOTHING to do with guys.
I just want to buy bras properly instead of hiding behind the teenage section/Bee Dees/sports bras, so please don't start off with a lecture of how I should treasure my body etc.

I've been around this forum enough to know that bust salons don't work, neither do pills, and surgery is my last option. However, if the general opinion is that guys simply cannot stand boob jobs, then I will re-consider my decision.

Ladies who've gone for boob jobs, do share your experiences too! Did your men enjoy the bedding better?



u r doing this to boost yur confidence level?
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Postby SunshineGal » Mon, 08 Aug 2005 1:05 pm

Yup I guess at the end of the day it's about self-confidence and looking proportionate.
I'm not model-stick-slim thin (S size). Neither am I fat (L size). I guess I'm what you call in the M (medium) range.
I've not been in contact with men in such a way that they resent my chest size. But my major problem is about bras and wearing anything low-cut.

It's ultimately annoying when I can't even fit into a decent A cup. And I'm not into heavy-padding either (too fake-looking).

So...guess I'd like a boob job to look more proportionate and get my bras with a higher level of satisfaction. I'm just looking for something in-between. No Pamela-Andersons for me!

As cyber_m0nkey mentioned, guys would definitely like something moderate right?

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Postby riversandlakes » Mon, 08 Aug 2005 1:22 pm

AA cup is just nice. who needs a handful anyway?
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Postby VirgoStar » Mon, 08 Aug 2005 2:34 pm

riversandlakes wrote:AA cup is just nice. who needs a handful anyway?


Really? *doubtful look*
Are you a guy or girl? Have you a good idea of what an AA cup is?

But let's say you're a guy...you'd definitely jump for joy if your girl gets a bigger (and natural-looking) chest right?

I know some boob jobs are awful and artificial looking. However, if the end-effect is natural looking (softer silicon I suppose), then you guys'd surely welcome the change...?

I've read so many articles where boyfriends/husbands were delighted after their ladies went for a boob job and saying that "sex is so much better" blah blah blah...

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Postby cyber_m0nkey » Mon, 08 Aug 2005 10:24 pm

VirgoStar wrote:I've read so many articles where boyfriends/husbands were delighted after their ladies went for a boob job and saying that "sex is so much better" blah blah blah...


I'm sorry, but that's just crap, bigger boobs don't make for better sex - self confident people do. If you can build your self confidence without getting a boob job then great the end result will be the same, i.e. you will be happier. But, if you really feel that you need a boob job to give that confidence boost (and that's OK to feel that) then go for it.

There could also be a downside that you may want to consider, i.e. unwanted attention, i.e. guys talking to your boobs and not to your face - sure you'll get more sex, but that doesn't mean it will be better...

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Postby K » Mon, 08 Aug 2005 11:07 pm

Ok i'ma guy, and i seriously think that boob size isn't tat important. It is like only important maybe for foreplay purposes. Of course i may speak from a genral point of view. but seriously, big handful of boobs does not really matter (for me). It juz acts as a supplementary kind of thing. Not primary.

Furthermore, like you, i've been reading about in this forum, and i've read about awful boob surgeries/jobs around here. And there were some loosing nipples, not having 'em of equal sizes. So i think you should avoid all those, and carry yourself proud, as a woman :)

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Postby Javier » Tue, 09 Aug 2005 11:33 am

Agreed! The real thing is better and I think if it's fake it'll turn many men off. At least men in Singapore I think.
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Postby juzaguy » Tue, 09 Aug 2005 3:39 pm

i wld say boobs isn't as impt as looks, but it deserves at least some significance.

i wld not speak and think that every man in sg or the world thinks like me, this is juz my point of view.

too small boobs or too large of coz isn't nice, A-C wld be juz fine. but a badly done boobs job would make juz make things worse. so if ur intending to have 1, make sure its a good 1.

many pornstars in the world have done boob jobs too, the fact that they're still able to attract man to watch and pay for those websites means that looking fake is still ok. that is if ur worried that a fake-looking job is done.

if it is too boost ur own self-confidence, it is not that necessary to haf a boobs job. it is juz like an extra peripheral factor, simply put it, secondary. i wld recommend u to do it only if u haf no financial problem and desperate.

enough of surface talking.

i have to agree that a confident sex partner can increase pleasure. u shld noe the details.

in relationships, if the guy likes u, he'll accept u. so boobs job is unimpotant. that is if he really sincerely loves u.

hope that u make the right decision.. :wink:

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Postby Cat » Tue, 09 Aug 2005 11:42 pm

juzaguy wrote:i wld say boobs isn't as impt as looks, but it deserves at least some significance.

i wld not speak and think that every man in sg or the world thinks like me, this is juz my point of view.

too small boobs or too large of because isn't nice, A-C wld be juz fine. but a badly done boobs job would make juz make things worse. so if ur intending to have 1, make sure its a good 1.

many pornstars in the world have done boob jobs too, the fact that they're still able to attract man to watch and pay for those websites means that looking fake is still ok. that is if ur worried that a fake-looking job is done.

if it is too boost ur own self-confidence, it is not that necessary to haf a boobs job. it is juz like an extra peripheral factor, simply put it, secondary. i wld recommend u to do it only if u haf no financial problem and desperate.

enough of surface talking.

i have to agree that a confident sex partner can increase pleasure. u shld know the details.

in relationships, if the guy likes u, he'll accept u. so boobs job is unimpotant. that is if he really sincerely loves u.

hope that u make the right decision.. :wink:


Well Said!! I agree too... If yr guy doesn't love u, no matter wat u do also will go down e drain.

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Postby SunshineGal » Wed, 10 Aug 2005 10:38 am

Wow! Thanks for the feedback guys! I guess I can keep my money for now...

But that doesn't solve the issue of me being unable to buy a decent bra *sob*

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Postby imperfectboobs » Thu, 11 Aug 2005 8:09 am

i understand how frustrating it is when you can't fit into bras. i don't have tiny breasts, but i have lopsided ones. and by that, i mean they are about two cup sizes different. one's a small A and the other's a big B. because of this, i can't wear bikinis.

i used to be afraid of getting intimate with guys because i thought they'd hate my breasts. but you know what? breasts are just breasts. guys love them all, regardless of how they look. and i believe most guys prefer real, natural ones.

i have thought about getting implants. but there are too many things to consider. breast augmentation is risky. implants are a lifetime commitment. you'll probably find yourself having to save up to get them replaced.

so i say it's best to save the money altogether.

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Postby medictbp » Thu, 11 Aug 2005 8:17 am

Please do not allow go into Plastic surgery just because of peer's pressure, or influenced by someone else.

If you want a boobjob, makesure you want it for yourself... only for yourself.

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Postby 3000ccwantabe » Sun, 14 Aug 2005 11:32 am

Hay there are some who love extreme breast augmentation (Women and Men). I believe that anyone willing to go through surgery to improve their looks (self view) is a great thing.
I have seen personnaly that most women going through the breast augmentation surgery are only happy(after the initial WOW factor is gone) are un happy they did not go larger.


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