i donno what is the reason cos most people r selfish. Just be strong, dont expect anything from them cos if you expect you will get disapointed. just dont expect anything thats all.B|ackIce wrote:There's been times that i think life was really unfair.. No matter how good i treat my friends & be loyal to them, they still tend to drift away from me some how. Or take me for granted.
There is a saying, "What goes around, comes around". I dont think its happening in this case... why?! can anyone tell me what could be the reasons??
Personally I find that with Singaporeans, they may know you, but either lack confidence to approach you to chat, or they don't wish to.B|ackIce wrote:hi Strong Eagle,
But it seems like the course mates in my level is havng this invisible barrier with me. Some say that i could be the cold appearance that i have or the aloof image that i portray. So i decided to make the 1st move by smiling & saying 'Hi' whenever i see them, since last semester. They can have lots of conversations with you today(which ended happily of course), but act as if they do not know you the next day. Unless you make the 1st move and start all over again.
Till today (half a yr later), its still the same. Is it a typical behaviour of local?? As i had never experienced it overseas before, so does my mum.
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http://www.blink.org.uk/mhussein/malspeach.htmB|ackIce wrote:Hi Ksl,
Thank You very much for the reply. I feel much better now.. JUst a curious question. Where were you from? How long have you been staying in Singapore?
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B|ackIce wrote:hi Strong Eagle,
But it seems like the course mates in my level is havng this invisible barrier with me. Some say that i could be the cold appearance that i have or the aloof image that i portray. So i decided to make the 1st move by smiling & saying 'Hi' whenever i see them, since last semester. They can have lots of conversations with you today(which ended happily of course), but act as if they do not know you the next day. Unless you make the 1st move and start all over again.
Till today (half a yr later), its still the same. Is it a typical behaviour of local?? As i had never experienced it overseas before, so does my mum.
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Hi English Gent,English Gent wrote:Think. Have you done anything to bring on this behaviour they show towards you in any way?
Sorry Blackice, I automatically thought you was male,(stupid of me)B|ackIce wrote:Hi English Gent,English Gent wrote:Think. Have you done anything to bring on this behaviour they show towards you in any way?
The problem is i've done nothing bad/ungraceful to them because my course mates and i are not close enough to have any conflicts going on. I'm a person who really treasure friendships, so much that even my ex-bf was jealous some of the time. Hahaha...
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