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Males cannot live without Sex Female can live without it!

Postby sitichan » Fri, 10 Jun 2005 5:48 pm

Is the above statement TRUE ?Kindly comment! :roll:
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Re: Males cannot live without Sex Female can live without it

Postby sundaymorningstaple » Fri, 10 Jun 2005 6:08 pm

sitichan wrote:Males cannot live without Sex Female can live without it!

Is the above statement TRUE ?Kindly comment! :roll:

I am afraid you will have to define your parameters a little bit clearer.

Men can use the sex act (and it's various permutations like watching porn movies :mrgreen: ) purely as a release of tension. On the other hand, women (not all, but the vast majority) cannot separate the sexual act from the emotion of love and procreation.

Theoretically yes, men can do without sex (Priests are a good example :tongue-in-cheek_smilie: ) but why would we want to keep that bottled up inside us? There are healthy reason not to do so as I have already pointed out. Personally, I don't think women can do without as well, otherwise dildo/vibrators & lesbians wouldn't exist! :mrgreen:

Please don't be afraid to open you horizons a little bit. Life will be ever so much more fun and you still won't go blind or have hairy palms or be condemned to purgatory. Start listening to you own body rather than trying to ignore what it is trying to say to you.

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Postby Uncle Sugar » Fri, 10 Jun 2005 6:09 pm

Males - True. Women - True.*

*Except women that have had sex with me, once they've been there no way are they going celibate.

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Postby Guest » Fri, 10 Jun 2005 7:13 pm

Uncle Sugar wrote:Males - True. Women - True.*

*Except women that have had sex with me, once they've been there no way are they going celibate.
Uncle Sugar wrote:Males - True. Women - True.*

*Except women that have had sex with me, once they've been there no way are they going to celebrate. .
the above was a typing error! J

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Postby woman » Fri, 10 Jun 2005 8:41 pm

I'm a woman and I cannot live without sex !!I'm not a nympho but I need sex every month(if I'm lucky).

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Postby bubbs » Fri, 10 Jun 2005 9:18 pm

Being a lesbian is not a choice you make just to have sex. It's the way some women are. Lesbians too go without sex. They're just people after all.
I'd agree though that some...some...women do like to stick the 'lurve' thing onto sex, no, not like to, have to, as it is more to do with being 'protected' with our offspring once we've had them. Men can procreate millions of times with no come back but women are the ones who carry the baby.

Not saying most men go off and do this, but it's hard wired into them by nature. It takes a lot of willpower for most guys not to follow their genetic make up and just 'spread it around.'

Not sure how that leaves us with the growing trend of women being predatory. Seems to me like it's the accepted thing now for girls and women of ALL ages to just go out there and do it like a 'man.' Well, in the UK anyway. If you told a group of 16 year olds here that they couldn't act like their male counterparts, in ANY way, you'd get laughed out of the room.

Still, I don't really believe that when they settle down a little into their grown up selves that they carry on like that. Most women and men seem to follow stereotypes.

Yes, there are lots of women who could just have sex for relief, but I think it's a bit soulless. I am also sure that men are far more likely to think of a 'one off' sexual encounter as 'just the way it is' and enjoy it.

We'd be far more likely to be covered in worry and be mentally slapping ourselves around the face for falling off the wagon.

Just my thoughts.

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Postby Guest » Fri, 10 Jun 2005 11:11 pm

Being a lesbian is not a choice you make just to have sex. It's the way some women are. Lesbians too go without sex. They're just people after all.


Certainly. Gays and lesbians are normal people just like you and me. Lesbians are no different from straight women except in their sexual orientation. And sexual orientation is not a choice, but something innate. Lesbians are naturally attracted to women, in the same way that straight women are naturally attracted to men. And yes, like straight women, some lesbians choose to be celibate. Whether to have sex or not is a personal choice, but not sexual orientation. Let's be sensitive and respectful towards everyone regardless of race, gender AND sexual orientation. :D

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Postby Uh_huh » Mon, 18 Jul 2005 11:44 pm

Everyone can live without sex...... Its just how badly they want to.

But there is no way I'm going to keep willy all to myself.
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Postby cinder » Tue, 19 Jul 2005 12:12 am

i think society made men could not live without sex while women could. there were little or no chances for women to think bout sex - they were too busy with chores, families etc, less exposed to sex education, taboo etc. but in the end of the day, both of them are human being. i bet couples generations later, both men and women will be (in)famous for not be able to live without sex - which now is starting to materialised

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Postby Guest » Tue, 19 Jul 2005 1:33 am

woman wrote:I'm a woman and I cannot live without sex !!I'm not a nympho but I need sex every month(if I'm lucky).


I'm a man and need it every other night, but like you I get it once a month if i'm lucky

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Postby Wimmin » Wed, 20 Jul 2005 2:19 pm

Women can be as highly sexed as men but we our orgasms arent attached to our egos like men are.

Self pleasure is a wonderful release but gets awfully lonely after a while..then the woman goes in search of physical intimacy with a man and often needs emotional involvement. If and when she can do it without becoming emotionally involved its good, otherwise complications arise.

But we manage much better than men.. though i have known of men who have gone for long periods without sex as well, have self pleasured and not used women just for sex, who also like women have woken up in the morning, looked at the person next to them and thought "now why did i do that?"

So i am of the opinion that if we are generalising, then yes, women ARE more able to withstand celibacy than men can.

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Postby seraphim » Wed, 20 Jul 2005 7:42 pm

Wimmin wrote:Women can be as highly sexed as men but we our orgasms arent attached to our egos like men are.

Self pleasure is a wonderful release but gets awfully lonely after a while..then the woman goes in search of physical intimacy with a man and often needs emotional involvement. If and when she can do it without becoming emotionally involved its good, otherwise complications arise.

But we manage much better than men.. though i have known of men who have gone for long periods without sex as well, have self pleasured and not used women just for sex, who also like women have woken up in the morning, looked at the person next to them and thought "now why did i do that?"

So i am of the opinion that if we are generalising, then yes, women ARE more able to withstand celibacy than men can.


I'm with wimmin on this one. And yes I am guilty of the emotional attachment thing. Like Bubbs said, its a bit soulless when there no emotional intimacy as well, I think. But its so hard not to get attached....Especially when the sex is good and the guy's a nice person. :lol:
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Postby moloch71 » Thu, 21 Jul 2005 8:50 am

Well, I can only truly comment from my own (limited) experiences.
However, its difficult to steer clear from sterotypes and generalisations - and there are always exceptions to the rule.

I believe that the comment, as it stands, can be applied as a rough rule, but not as an absolute. Women can deal with a lack of sex better than guys, for one thing they can get meaningless sex so easily, so its not that they are after !
I've known girls to be able to switch off their sex drives during long periods outside a relationship, men are less likely to do so.

I believe the popularity of dildos/vibrator are more a product of women in relationships, and the cruel twist of nature that a girl experiences her peak in sexual desire in mid-30s, where as a man is expected to peak around 18. Its all these horny housewives with past their expiry date men. This explains to me why one of the earlier posters complains she only gets it once a month. Guys at 18 would like it 1-5 times a day !!

Finally, on to the topic of masturbation (it was the last posters comment!).
I believe that few people masturbate because they like/want to, they do it as an alternative to getting real action.
Now Ive read (do i really have to find the kinsey report?), that the incidence of masturbation for females is 4/10, whereas the incidence of masturbation for men is 9/10 (and the last guy lied ;) ).

What does this say about guys cant live without sex more than girls ? :p
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Postby Bafana » Fri, 22 Jul 2005 4:58 pm

Anonymous wrote:
woman wrote:I'm a woman and I cannot live without sex !!I'm not a nympho but I need sex every month(if I'm lucky).


I'm a man and need it every other night, but like you I get it once a month if i'm lucky


Try needing it 24/7 and only getting it 6/7...

Anyway anyone up for some casual sex???

BTW methink a woman was the original poster lah

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