Kimi wrote:What is it actually?
Cause it seems that you can have this "chemistry" even on the first time you meet somebody.
If what-so-called "love at first sight" is just an infatuation which is this chemistry thing, why would people be so skeptical about it, when actually heaps would pursue to go further once they feel the chemistry whereas most wouldn't pursue if there is no chemistry at the beginning?
Can this "chemistry" thingy is more on first impression? The traits of the other person's which you notice from the way they talk, walk, behave, etc. which you fancy?
love is blind! simple and true, another definition would be to say love is an illusion. get real kimi, where do you come from?
agreed arrange marriages in many cultures do work out, many forced marriages do not.
But if you look at Europe, the divorce rates are climbing high, Denmark have almost given up on marriages and relatonships, with 3 out of 4 failing after 3 years. It's like playing russian roulette, so why bring it up?
Maybe your feeling so lonely in Singapore eh? love yourself, and have sex when you feel like it, no committment, no problem.
After the chemistry wears off, all you are left with are headaches, financial worries, and period pains. what's the point!
what you need is a good old chit chat
