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Re: 44 yr old guy looking for an expact gf

Post by sundaymorningstaple » Thu, 28 Mar 2024 10:07 am

Why would I ban you? I'm not the one who is butt hurt. I became agnostic in 1960. I studied most, if not all the major religions of the world and a lot of minor ones as well over a 25 year period until 1984 or 85 (after I'd spend three years studying here as well. I found none that were non-aggressive so therefore I couldn't, in my heart accept any. It is funny in a way, as of all the Christian religions I found Catholicism the most irrational but I still ended up marrying one and have been married to one (Singaporean) for over 40 years. I have two children (adults of 35 & 40 now) and 4 grandkids. All were born & baptized Catholics and my wife raised them that way under the proviso that once they reached their teens if they decided to leave the church, she must let them. I also made a promise to her that I would never interfere with or try to convince them to change. Religions, (all of them) are created by man. The writings are all created by man. Therefore none are the "valid" religion. However, all religions are created to give man something else to hold onto (e.g., the knot at the end of a rope) in times of stress/need because most men are not able or strong enough to believe in themselves. I don't diss any religion. But then again for the past 64 years I been strong enough and moral enough to put myself up against anybody morally. Religion is a man-made construct to control other men. Nothing more. So no, I don't plan on banning you. You are still welcome here as long as you maintain decorum and don't resort to threats. Should that happen Admin will ban you. Peace be with you. (but reading your last post, there is not much peace within you).
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Re: 44 yr old guy looking for an expact gf

Post by tiktok » Fri, 29 Mar 2024 11:29 am

Why does every post of yours turn into a mini life story? I don't deny you've had a somewhat interesting and long life but why you do have to dump it in every discussion?

On the other hand, your previous reply to the OP was obviously intended to irritate him. Your modus operandi is 1. Insult 2. Tell life story.
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Re: 44 yr old guy looking for an expact gf

Post by malcontent » Sat, 30 Mar 2024 1:48 am

jusayhi wrote:
Wed, 27 Mar 2024 8:06 pm
sundaymorningstaple wrote:
Wed, 27 Mar 2024 4:10 pm
@jusayhi Good Luck. I reckon you are going to need it. A 44 year old man who shows us pics of 20 year old girls who are just confused young ladies trying to be influencers. Heck one didn't know that Catholics and Christians are all considered Christians just like Shiites and Sunni's & Sufi's and Nation of Islam are all considered Muslims.
Lol at this mod getting butthurt about westerners reverting to islam. You must have a deep hatred towards Muslims.

I'm gonna make you infamous on Reddit. Then again I'm not gonna give this dead forum any traffic. Lol.

Feel free to ban me.
I am sure SMS is quaking in his boots at the thought of you making him infamous… and yes… you’ll get much better advice on Reddit… don’t walk, run back to Reddit. LOL
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Re: 44 yr old guy looking for an expact gf

Post by PNGMK » Sun, 31 Mar 2024 8:37 am

I've met Malay / Expat lady couples. It does happen - it probably happens far more in Malaysia or Indonesia though.
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Re: 44 yr old guy looking for an expact gf

Post by malcontent » Sun, 31 Mar 2024 9:42 am

What I have observed… couples where it’s an Asian guy with an ang moh lady — usually the Asian guy is a SNAG (sensitive new age guy), which is what most western women are looking for. There is one such couple in my condo who we know well.
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Re: 44 yr old guy looking for an expact gf

Post by borovfriss » Tue, 04 Feb 2025 7:08 am

I can definitely relate to your energy and outlook—feeling young at heart is key, no matter what the calendar says! It’s great that you’re putting yourself out there and looking for someone who shares your interests. Having shared hobbies like hiking, cycling, and beach camping sounds like a wonderful foundation for a relationship, especially when you’re open to friendships as well.

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