My ex (Malay) had the same issue.malcontent wrote: ↑Wed, 16 Aug 2023 8:30 pmMy wife constantly mixes up her pronouns, he becomes she and she becomes he… the pronoun police would have a field day with her. I suspect it is probably due to her childhood upbringing in Bahasa, which like Chinese, has genderless pronouns.sundaymorningstaple wrote: ↑Wed, 16 Aug 2023 11:56 ambf local or not? best friend or boy friend? Is you current flat jointly owned with your MOM.You will have to divest yourself of your share if you plan on buying with your bf (now days we gotta ask as bf doesn't have a gender attached to it anymore). Most of us don't use pronouns here either.
