Wow! We don't have these kind of pathways in the Indian education system( my daughter goes to an Indian intl school in Singapore ).malcontent wrote: ↑Thu, 18 Apr 2024 12:19 amYou’ve got some time, but you’ll be surprised how quickly college age comes.
My kids might both be starting college this fall. My wife is thinking of having my son take a high school exemption exam and skip the last two years - go straight into junior college (community college) in the U.S. He will probably have better options as a transfer student in California than trying to get in as a high school graduate (acceptance rates are more than double). After what our daughter went through, it should also be less stressful.
Which country are you from (sorry if I missed it elsewhere in the thread)?Wd40 wrote: ↑Sat, 15 Jul 2023 9:10 amI just realized a number of European countries like Portugal, Spain etc offer retirement visas if you have passive income and enough savings.
So I was wondering people like me from 3rd world countries working in Singapore but will never get PR here and don't have a 1st world country passport, our situation is different from the 1st world country expats here who are looking for 3rd world country retirement visas like Thailand, Indonesia etc.
The problem with the retirement visas is that we are not allowed to work atleast until 5 years after which we can convert to permanent residence in Europe. So we need to time this well, we need to continue working in Singapore as long as it is possible but eventually our time runs out and it is perfect time to move to a retirement visa in Europe.
Any thoughts?
Indiacasey5047 wrote: ↑Thu, 13 Jun 2024 10:41 amWhich country are you from (sorry if I missed it elsewhere in the thread)?Wd40 wrote: ↑Sat, 15 Jul 2023 9:10 amI just realized a number of European countries like Portugal, Spain etc offer retirement visas if you have passive income and enough savings.
So I was wondering people like me from 3rd world countries working in Singapore but will never get PR here and don't have a 1st world country passport, our situation is different from the 1st world country expats here who are looking for 3rd world country retirement visas like Thailand, Indonesia etc.
The problem with the retirement visas is that we are not allowed to work atleast until 5 years after which we can convert to permanent residence in Europe. So we need to time this well, we need to continue working in Singapore as long as it is possible but eventually our time runs out and it is perfect time to move to a retirement visa in Europe.
Any thoughts?
How would you school your kid there? I'd let her finish school in India. If you are still working and/or can work remote for someone, look into the Digitial Nomad Visas (if they are still around then). You can work somewhere for 1-2 years and then head back. Somewhat of an extended vacation, experience something new, etc without burning cash.Wd40 wrote: ↑Sat, 18 Jan 2025 6:49 pmI just checked out Bangalore vs Lisbon cost of living in Numbeo
https://www.numbeo.com/cost-of-living/c ... =Bangalore
Salaries in Bangalore are similar to Lisbon, cost of living in Lisbon is double of Bangalore, lol.
I did lots of research on trying to move to Europe on their passive income/retirement visa. But then considering the fact that those visas wont let me work over there and ask me to shows tons of documents including like police clearance, apostile on my documents, I was like there is no way I am going through those hoops to again live like a foreigner in another country.
After living the expat life here in Singapore, I am done. Now I will go back to Bangalore and live like a local, speak the local language, eat the local food and then work freely without any restrictions.
The biggest differentiating factor between US and Singapore from the career/salary point of view, is the immigration. Singapore because of the way the immigration is, even though it is tightening, it is much more easier for employers to find cheap talent especially if it is not ultra niche. This is why you rarely see very high salaries in Singapore, whereas in US, software developers can make like 600-800k a year, imagine that kind of salary in Singapore.malcontent wrote: ↑Mon, 15 Apr 2024 4:01 pmThis makes me wonder, where is the best place for my kids to earn good money without high tax or high cost of living… especially when they are first starting out? Taxes are usually not as big of a factor for fresh grads earning starting salaries.
A fresh grad in the U.S. at my employer is getting around $70k right now, and depending on contributions to tax advantaged accounts, taxes can be quite reasonable, even in a high tax state.
A fresh grad in Singapore at my employer is getting around S$5k right now, which is >30% less than their U.S. counterparts at the moment. Tax savings isn’t going to help, and cost of living is only manageable if you tick the right boxes and accept a modest lifestyle.
My daughter will go to a local school in India, she will go to 8th grade next year. Yes, the digital nomad visa is a good idea.NYY1 wrote: ↑Sat, 18 Jan 2025 8:26 pmHow would you school your kid there? I'd let her finish school in India. If you are still working and/or can work remote for someone, look into the Digitial Nomad Visas (if they are still around then). You can work somewhere for 1-2 years and then head back. Somewhat of an extended vacation, experience something new, etc without burning cash.Wd40 wrote: ↑Sat, 18 Jan 2025 6:49 pmI just checked out Bangalore vs Lisbon cost of living in Numbeo
https://www.numbeo.com/cost-of-living/c ... =Bangalore
Salaries in Bangalore are similar to Lisbon, cost of living in Lisbon is double of Bangalore, lol.
I did lots of research on trying to move to Europe on their passive income/retirement visa. But then considering the fact that those visas wont let me work over there and ask me to shows tons of documents including like police clearance, apostile on my documents, I was like there is no way I am going through those hoops to again live like a foreigner in another country.
After living the expat life here in Singapore, I am done. Now I will go back to Bangalore and live like a local, speak the local language, eat the local food and then work freely without any restrictions.
No need to explain or justify to anyone else. By all accounts, I think it has worked out for you.Wd40 wrote: ↑Sat, 18 Jan 2025 9:10 pmMy daughter will go to a local school in India, she will go to 8th grade next year. Yes, the digital nomad visa is a good idea.
I just came back from a vacation to India and most people ask me why do I want to leave Singapore, it is difficult to explain to them. I tell them Singapore is a great place to live and work and raise a family. Then what is the reason I want to leave on my own accord?
I do quite a poor job in explaining my reasons but here they are:
1) No PR in Singapore, so it is just a matter of leaving now vs leaving in another 5, 10 or even 15 years. If the end goal is to leave Singapore, then I might as well do it now and look forward to something new.
2) The main reason I came to Singapore was for the geographical arbitrage, higher savings potential in Singapore, which I have made the most of. Continuing to live here I will save more money, but I am unlikely to spend it.
3) The 1st 5 years in Singapore were really exciting, it was a new country to explore, we travelled around the region, I even bought a motobike and used to go to JB and fill petrol every 3 weeks, lol and those days of riding motorcyle were the best days of my life here. I sold my motorcyle after 5 years due to a job uncertainity. Then even though the uncertainity went away and I found a new job, the COE went through the roof, it went up like 10Xand I gave up riding. The next 10 years were pretty mundane, every day is like the same day and we have been living in a loop. Because we dont have any real friends or family here, even those friends we make, eventually leave Singapore and we start from scratch. We live in Jurong near Lakeside near an Indian intl school and the demographics have completely changed here in the last 7 years. When we came here rents were cheap, there were lots of Indian families renting HDBs and their kids in playgrounds it was a very India India kind of atmosphere. But after covid and prices shooting up, most of the Indians renting HDB have left Singapore, only the husband stays and the wife and kids went back to India. The richer dual income condo living Indians still continue to be in Singapore and send their kids to the Indian intl school. So we are kind of a rare species here, my salary is such that I can afford a condo, but I refuse to upgrade my lifestyle here as HDB is fine for us.
4) My skills are pretty average. I am working in my current role with the current employer since the last 9 years. So I last successfully interviewed and found a job was 9 years ago and that was a fluke lol. If I were to interview myself, I would never hire myself. My team is pretty mediocre, but it is a smallish European bank and not much work happens here, it is a support kind of role. I stopped doing real coding ages ago and I more of a process guy. My skills will not get my any job here in Singapore and I hate to upskill, no ambition, since I have already made enough. This also means, that I am stuck with this job and stuck with this boss. I will be doing everyone a favour by quitting myself, even though I have lots of process knowledge and my boss will most likely be happy for me to continue working from India on a Indian vendor's payroll. I havent spoken to him yet, I am waiting for my bonus letter.
5) My daughter's school some of her friends are already moving back to India this year. The kind of parents who continue to send their kids to the indian intl school at higher grades like the O level and A level are the type of parents who are like senior level condo dwelling dual income executives. Their jobs are pretty stable and they are likely to be pretty open to send their kids to study anywhere in the world, if their kids dont manage to get into the Singapore universities. I am not that big a hitter in my career. I also dont know if my daughter will be comfortable studying alone abroad for her university. Also I dont want to commit to living in Singapore until my daughter's college is over and then it is never ending right, I will have to try to stay here until she finds a job. What about her visa status and all that. I just feel that is too much of long term uncertainty to deal with.
6) My parents are old (75 and 70) and alone, although they are fit and do everything on their own and they are part of a very well knit community. They have built a landed house in Bangalore and they live in the ground floor and the upper floor is rent out. We are planning to go and live in the upper floor, so we get to have our privacy and still be there for our parents and for my daughter to know her grand parents better. So that is a huge plus for me. Even though my wife doesnt get along with my parents, we hope we can find a happy coexistence.
So those are my reasons, sorry for the long rant![]()
Absolutely! This is exactly my thought process as well. Once you are financially secure, you would rather try out other things than doing the same thing. We have only one life. Imagine I work in the same city and same company for 20 years Vs I work for 3 or 4 different cities/countries in those 20 years. The latter is likely to be more worthwhile in terms of experiences, after the financial part is taken out of the equation.malcontent wrote: ↑Sun, 19 Jan 2025 10:35 pmIt takes guts to walk away from a relatively high paying job because of the financial security it represents. Everyone in my office thought I was crazy for giving up my job, which not only paid well but wasn’t too difficult or stressful. I’m now 2.5 weeks unemployed and although it’s not a great feeling, it has broken a monotonous cycle and is forcing me outside of my comfort zone. Change is hard, but variety is also the spice of life. When we look back in 10 or 20 years from now, I believe we’ll say it was all worth it.
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