It sounds to me like you’re already living the dream, that is what making smart money moves early on can do.jalanjalan wrote: ↑Wed, 07 Jun 2023 12:47 pmIf FIRE includes working as and when you want to, then we've been doing it since our early 40s. We were able to do so because of a few factors: we bought HDB direct so maxed out the subsidies, we paid it off in 12 years so were debt-free, we live a fairly simple lifestyle, and we didn't happen to have kids.
I'm not really sure what people mean when they talk about FIRE lifestyle, to be honest, I just assumed it was doing what you want to do, how you want to do it, which may include paid work or not. These days I set my own schedule and work if I feel like it (apart from housework, which is mandatory!).
If your daughter goes to a local uni, it’s quite affordable as a SG citizen. My kids are US citizens so their ang pows are deposited via Wise into their Schwab (UGMA) accounts and mostly invested in VTI. We don’t have designated college funds, but we’ll superfund 529 plans for them once we move.smoulder wrote: ↑Wed, 07 Jun 2023 1:31 pmFor me, initially I was quite attracted to the concept of FIRE. Specifically, retiring early because of financial independence seemed cool.
But over time, the more I think about it and the more I read about the experiences of people who did retire early I'm more drawn towards just the FI part. At the moment I'm 43 and the official retirement age is 63 - I believe it will be 67 by the time I'm due for retirement. I'm now leaning towards working right until they say that I cannot work anymore (67 if possible). I enjoy what I do and I'm happy to have it fill most of my week. And it pays money, so that's icing on the cake. The cherry on top would be when I no longer have to work for money - only because I enjoy working. Getting a decent salary would then be the bonus.
I think based on where I am now, I could realistically have financial independence around the age of 55. Working well beyond this age is going to go a long way towards being way more than just crossing the threshold of financial independence.
I'm also preparing a college fund for my daughter - I basically take all the ang pow money she gets, top up my own ang pows every month and invest it in SPY and QQQ in a separate account.
I can relate… sometimes I feel like I could take or leave my job and don’t care if I get fired, but a layoff would be ideal — with my seniority I’d get the maximum severance pay and it’d be tax free in Singapore. It would be almost 2 years worth of after-tax compensation. I would love to spend some quality time with my friends and family back in the US. I managed to get 3 weeks in June last year, but it’s not enough. But to just up and quit my job when it’s really not difficult or stressful… why would I do that? I’ve also got some more business travel that I’m looking forward to. There is just too much upside and not a lot of downside.Wd40 wrote: ↑Wed, 07 Jun 2023 8:19 pmI am naturally suited for FIRE and have been working towards it right from the beginning, basically saving as much as I can. I am naturally frugal. I go to Fairprice for shopping and I see so many brands, I look for the cheapest brand, sometimes, the weights are different, so I pull out my phone calculator to divide the price by the weight to get the unit price, lol. So I have been saving around 50% of my gross salary in Singapore since the last 14 years and I have hit the 1m USD mark in networth this year. This is through just sheer hardwork of savings, not any property boom or stock market boom. It is only recently that I am investing more into the markets to manage my wealth and keep it on par with inflation.
I also have the natural low cost geographical arbitrage option to just go back to India and it is amazing to be back home, among your own people, your own food etc during retirement, no problems of visa etc
The reason why I had to choose FIRE is because, I am a very lazy person, totally lack motivation to learn something and grow in my career. Intellectually I am quite average.I have been extremely lucky to have my current career, inspite of my pretty mediocre skills. All my teammates are 5-10 years younger than me. My manager is 8 years younger than me. After hitting 10 years of experience, I basically stopped counting my experience. There was a point early in my career, when more experience meant I am more valuable, but after I crossed 10 and I am doing the same thing then the experience is no longer valuable, lol.
I am 43 years old now and I have enough to retire early. Now the only reason that keeps me going is that I have been in my current role for like 8 years and everybody knows me respects me and although sometimes I feel quite hassled at work and feel like quitting, I am like if I anyways plan to quit, why should I quit on my own? I would rather wait for them to FIRE me. So I go through these mind games constantly.
Another reason to remain here is my wife and daughter like this place, I would hate to break their life here short on my own. We moved to Singapore without planning, so it was inertia, I got a job opportunity and I moved with the flow. So I would like to leave Singapore also the same way, let nature take its own course( don't know the best way to phrase it), like a layoff or visa rejection or something.
malcontent wrote: ↑Wed, 07 Jun 2023 10:25 pm
I can relate… sometimes I feel like I could take or leave my job and don’t care if I get fired, but a layoff would be ideal — with my seniority I’d get the maximum severance pay and it’d be tax free in Singapore. It would be almost 2 years worth of after-tax compensation. I would love to spend some quality time with my friends and family back in the US. I managed to get 3 weeks in June last year, but it’s not enough. But to just up and quit my job when it’s really not difficult or stressful… why would I do that? I’ve also got some more business travel that I’m looking forward to. There is just too much upside and not a lot of downside.
There's always a trade-off, like we'll probably not be getting a new COE at the current crazy prices.malcontent wrote: ↑Wed, 07 Jun 2023 6:21 pmIt sounds to me like you’re already living the dream, that is what making smart money moves early on can do.jalanjalan wrote: ↑Wed, 07 Jun 2023 12:47 pmIf FIRE includes working as and when you want to, then we've been doing it since our early 40s. We were able to do so because of a few factors: we bought HDB direct so maxed out the subsidies, we paid it off in 12 years so were debt-free, we live a fairly simple lifestyle, and we didn't happen to have kids.
I'm not really sure what people mean when they talk about FIRE lifestyle, to be honest, I just assumed it was doing what you want to do, how you want to do it, which may include paid work or not. These days I set my own schedule and work if I feel like it (apart from housework, which is mandatory!).
I’ve still got 18 more years of mortgage and each payment consumes over half of my take home pay… but it’s still better than renting.
I did experience that identity crisis feeling when I stopped working in a field I had been in for over 20 years. It really bothered me for some years as I tried to figure out what to call myself, as my part time projects were all over the place, according to what I felt like doing (eg. from designing a website, to being short order cook at a cafe in Little India, to manning a booth at an education fair, or just doing stuff around the house).Wd40 wrote: ↑Wed, 07 Jun 2023 11:05 pmIn my case, I just feel the novelty of "I can spend my time however I want" will wear out very soon. Those 2 or 3 weeks vacation we take, were precious time we took away from work and hence we are able to make the most of it. If we quit our job and have all the time in the world, I am pretty sure after sometime, we will find that we are not be able to relate with most the friends circle, because all of them will be busy with work and life.
Apart from the money a big part of our identity and who we are is our jobs. So when that identity is taken away it leaves a vaccuum, and we might notice the difference in behaviour from the same friends. People are going to say "Hey you are so free right, but I have a job to go to, so I cant make it" also people will take us for granted the other way too "Hey why dont you come over and help me do this and this, anyway you are free and you have nothing else to do right?"
When you have a job, you have an easy escape route for everything. I dont spend time with my family because I have a job, it is a different matter, that I may not enjoy spending a lot of time with my family, we all need our personal space. We also bitch about our workplace and all our negativity is directed towards bosses and colleagues. When you dont have a job and spend all time with family, what is going to happen? Most likely more frictions, we start micromanaging more household stuff since now we have free time, empty mind devils workshop.
So I feel, overall this approach of continuing to work until fired, is the best approach for most of us.
I also faltered in the beginning. I moved here shortly after college and quickly adopted a local mindset towards investing — building a portfolio of mostly penny stocks on the local Singapore exchange. It took me a while to realize that it was a losers game, but I didn’t knuckle down and take it seriously until my investments grew more substantial. I then started dedicating serious time and research to it.jalanjalan wrote: ↑Thu, 08 Jun 2023 12:25 pmThere's always a trade-off, like we'll probably not be getting a new COE at the current crazy prices.malcontent wrote: ↑Wed, 07 Jun 2023 6:21 pmIt sounds to me like you’re already living the dream, that is what making smart money moves early on can do.jalanjalan wrote: ↑Wed, 07 Jun 2023 12:47 pmIf FIRE includes working as and when you want to, then we've been doing it since our early 40s. We were able to do so because of a few factors: we bought HDB direct so maxed out the subsidies, we paid it off in 12 years so were debt-free, we live a fairly simple lifestyle, and we didn't happen to have kids.
I'm not really sure what people mean when they talk about FIRE lifestyle, to be honest, I just assumed it was doing what you want to do, how you want to do it, which may include paid work or not. These days I set my own schedule and work if I feel like it (apart from housework, which is mandatory!).
I’ve still got 18 more years of mortgage and each payment consumes over half of my take home pay… but it’s still better than renting.
One thing I wish we had done differently - we knew next to nothing about investing, so our returns were meh. We only really took charge of this in our late 40s and now finally seeing some modest progress.
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