Thinking of Divorce

[korosensei]

yea i think because im a new mom and overwhelm with household chores, work and taking care of baby. can anyone advise me on how to overcome this. TIA!

[PNGMK]

Yes this is a good read, it's how I learned about stonewalling. Had no idea it had a name before then.

Contempt was what destroyed my first marriage. It's almost impossible to reverse.

If you had a chance to have a do over, what you do anything differently?

Not marry her.

[PNGMK]

yea i think because im a new mom and overwhelm with household chores, work and taking care of baby. can anyone advise me on how to overcome this. TIA!

Can you afford a helper? Or even a part time cleaner?

[Lisafuller]

yea i think because im a new mom and overwhelm with household chores, work and taking care of baby. can anyone advise me on how to overcome this. TIA!

If this is an issue, then you either need to get help or get your husband to help you, otherwise, your stress and exhaustion will manifest in resentment towards him.

[Lisafuller]

Contempt was what destroyed my first marriage. It's almost impossible to reverse.

If you had a chance to have a do over, what you do anything differently?

Not marry her.

Lol

[Lisafuller]

yea i think because im a new mom and overwhelm with household chores, work and taking care of baby. can anyone advise me on how to overcome this. TIA!

Can you afford a helper? Or even a part time cleaner?

A part-time cleaner is the most cost-effective option that retains the most privacy. I've noticed that (especially since COVID) part time cleaners seem to be gaining popularity as compared to live-in help. Though, for a new mom, we live in helper might be better to help with the baby.