IMO, there's nothing wrong with competition. Sports, Arts, etc all have (very) competitive aspects to them, and no one complains. Some will say these are voluntary activities and no one is forcing you to partake in them whereas one must go to school. I think the difference or problem is when the child has too much of his/her identity based on where he/she goes to school, class ranking, what awards won, etc. In all of these, you need to separate whether the kid actually likes doing the activity or they just like the praise/status/ego of winning. The latter is a recipe to eventually run into a brick wall and be very unhappy.Lisafuller wrote: ↑Sat, 29 Apr 2023 9:32 pmPart of the reason why you're not crazy competitive is probably because you grew up in an environment that allowed you to grow and learn at your own pace. This is what is lacking in Singapore. We teach our kids to be unhappy and never satisfied from young.
Nobody has talked about it, but I think it could be effective in treating one common ailment here: kiasuismtiktok wrote: ↑Mon, 01 May 2023 9:01 pmUnlike the article x9200 posted, the 3 links I posted are actually scientific papers with results of experiments on human cells and mice.
In the third one they took 1212 people who are already receiving CBD which is FDA approved for treating seizures. It was found that hepatitis C replication is reduced by 86% in that group.
Don't take this the wrong way, but it's not surprising to hear you lament some of the things about the school system or the behaviour/attitude your kid has (edit: focus only on branding for uni, non-stop studies, etc). Sounds like she's been in an echo chamber of school superiority all of her life.malcontent wrote: ↑Mon, 01 May 2023 11:11 pmMy wife rightly said — if “every school is a good school” then no need to have PSLE anymore, every student can just be assigned random schools near their homes. Problem solved.
But, doctors can apply to the HSA if they find cannabinoid pharmaceuticals are necessary for their patients, and some do get approved. And if I remember correctly, a team from NUS is working on a synthetic version to be used for medical purposes.tiktok wrote: ↑Mon, 01 May 2023 6:16 pmBack to the cannabis discussion, and Singapore's barbaric outdated laws, here are some studies showing the effectiveness of CBD (a cannabis derivative that will get you hanged here) at inhibiting COVID and other viral infections.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7987002/
https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.abi6110
https://scholar.google.com/scholar_look ... es=116-118
If you have a short attention span like me, here's a video summary: https://youtu.be/Bz4fn2QFO_A
Only cure for kiasuness is getting what you want then realising it wasn't worth the trouble.malcontent wrote: ↑Mon, 01 May 2023 11:17 pmNobody has talked about it, but I think it could be effective in treating one common ailment here: kiasuism![]()
For true kiasu types, the greater the trouble, the greater the sense of accomplishment… even if it wasn’t something they wanted at all! It’s truly an affliction of the mind, which could be moderated with some mind altering substancesjalanjalan wrote: ↑Mon, 01 May 2023 11:52 pmOnly cure for kiasuness is getting what you want then realising it wasn't worth the trouble.malcontent wrote: ↑Mon, 01 May 2023 11:17 pmNobody has talked about it, but I think it could be effective in treating one common ailment here: kiasuism![]()
My daughter started out at SMPS which is not prestigious at all - only slightly above average. We never pushed her, she always did decently well and was always self-motivated.NYY1 wrote: ↑Mon, 01 May 2023 11:21 pmDon't take this the wrong way, but it's not surprising to hear you lament some of the things about the school system or the behaviour/attitude your kid has (edit: focus only on branding for uni, non-stop studies, etc). Sounds like she's been in an echo chamber of school superiority all of her life.malcontent wrote: ↑Mon, 01 May 2023 11:11 pmMy wife rightly said — if “every school is a good school” then no need to have PSLE anymore, every student can just be assigned random schools near their homes. Problem solved.
Edit: this isn't a statement that one shouldn't try for certain things in education/life nor is it saying all things are the same. Instead, there are many kids here that have been fortunate to attend prestigious schools all of their life (P1 - JC2), and a lot of the parents know the kids are lucky. They try to impart some sense of awareness and gratitude in the child, rather than the need to mock anything below them.
Believe it or not, by the end of 12 years many kids do better, both academically and non-academically, in an environment where they aren't under the gun to produce and compare results day after day. IMO, results are only one part of the schooling process.
You would need to make an effort of reading through it, finding what papers they refer to and read them as well. Whether CBD or THC or any other specific components is also superficial as they all come together and if marijuana is allowed they will be sold/available together.
The problem is, it is worth the trouble, because this is how the whole system works. You jump the queue nobody says a bad word.jalanjalan wrote: ↑Mon, 01 May 2023 11:52 pmOnly cure for kiasuness is getting what you want then realising it wasn't worth the trouble.malcontent wrote: ↑Mon, 01 May 2023 11:17 pmNobody has talked about it, but I think it could be effective in treating one common ailment here: kiasuism![]()
That's asking a bit much. Thats why I posted a video summary to make the information easy to find. The only point I was making is CBD alone has medical benefits. This is just one of the many reasons why Singapore's cannabis laws are misguided.x9200 wrote: ↑Tue, 02 May 2023 6:22 amYou would need to make an effort of reading through it, finding what papers they refer to and read them as well. Whether CBD or THC or any other specific components is also superficial as they all come together and if marijuana is allowed they will be sold/available together.
Comparing some pot head smoking weed for a high with a bunch of other pot heads vs a controlled drug that has gone through multiple tests before being released in the market and even then is only prescribed by a doctor who has gone through years of training and has several years of experience...... Loljalanjalan wrote: ↑Mon, 01 May 2023 11:39 pmBut, doctors can apply to the HSA if they find cannabinoid pharmaceuticals are necessary for their patients, and some do get approved. And if I remember correctly, a team from NUS is working on a synthetic version to be used for medical purposes.tiktok wrote: ↑Mon, 01 May 2023 6:16 pmBack to the cannabis discussion, and Singapore's barbaric outdated laws, here are some studies showing the effectiveness of CBD (a cannabis derivative that will get you hanged here) at inhibiting COVID and other viral infections.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7987002/
https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.abi6110
https://scholar.google.com/scholar_look ... es=116-118
If you have a short attention span like me, here's a video summary: https://youtu.be/Bz4fn2QFO_A
That is nothing to do with recreational use.
I don't know if they are misguided. I think they just try to make a case addressing some common arguments.tiktok wrote: ↑Tue, 02 May 2023 7:43 amThat's asking a bit much. Thats why I posted a video summary to make the information easy to find. The only point I was making is CBD alone has medical benefits. This is just one of the many reasons why Singapore's cannabis laws are misguided.x9200 wrote: ↑Tue, 02 May 2023 6:22 amYou would need to make an effort of reading through it, finding what papers they refer to and read them as well. Whether CBD or THC or any other specific components is also superficial as they all come together and if marijuana is allowed they will be sold/available together.
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