aquanav wrote: ↑Fri, 27 Oct 2023 9:51 am
Hey everyone! Been reading a lot of posts on people applying for PR, long waits, rejections, approvals etc.
My application (2nd time) was recent, submitted in August 2023 (some of you helped me with some insights in another thread I had posted, thank you again!)
While I know it’s a long wait for whatever the outcome might be, I am having anxiety about it almost every day, and seem to be logging in every morning to check the application status. While it’s not taking up all my time and/or mind space, it keeps floating in my thoughts and I’m struggling a bit sometimes.
I wanted to know if anyone else faced this and how they coped with it. Thank you
So you have anxiety regarding the application outcome, right? Now try to frankly answer the following question inside your mind, if you are so anxious and this pr result is making you to struggle mentally to a greater extent.
HANDLING PR CARELESSLY: Why should they give pr to your wife (since you applied as a family) when she has not monitored her REP and let the situation get worse to the level of PR getting renounced? Even if she had some issues or reasons for such a situation to arise, ICA would have definitely accepted the reason if it is valid and spared her REP. I personally believe you dont want to tell the full situation that led to her PR cancellation, but its ok if you consider it personal. Coming back to the question, why should they give pr to someone who did not know its value? I know right now one of the feasible way to get pr for indians is to do undegrad degree here and they will get pr after working for a year or two. It is due to some indians who have just wasted their pr, there are many others who are dying for it, but not getting it yet. So why should they give it to her? Also your occupation is not something that is in demand, or else you might have got it the first time, as you are here for 8 to 9 yrs based on previous posts. In addition to that, you both are nearing 40, so again, why should they give you?
This is a major concern and it can take a few more applications i.e. a few more years to be considered for pr. My best advice is to forget this 2nd application that you have submitted, as it may not be favourable for you. So why to fret and break your head and be anxious over something that is having a shady past? It is not useful. I personally know how hard it is to wait and anticipate the results as i experience it too. It not only gives anxiety but it can sometimes make one feel mentally incapacitated. However, since you have a lot of skeletons in your closet, dont hold your breath. I know this may sound rude, which i dont like to say. But i want to say so, so that you wont be hurt when the result comes. You already make some decent money, earn as much as you can and prepare to settle elsewhere, if pr eludes you.
And above all, you have submitted it just 2-3 months ago, and you start to get so anxious? Come on my friend, you are not malaysian chinese to expect the results so fast. Pull up your socks and face it like a man. There are people waiting for it for over 20months, so what have you got to say for them. Just go and concentrate on your family and career, as in my opinion that is what life is all about. There is life even without pr and if someone better than me (within indian quota) gets it instead of me, i would be happy too and not anxious.
The above are just my opinion and i apologize if anything above looks hurting or rude, but i hope you can see the facts and reality that i try to explain based on my understanding.
