Froyder wrote: ↑Thu, 19 Jan 2023 11:17 pm
We're not kids any more and we want to settle down. Please don't judge us just because we're "moving fast" and is "red flag" as per your opinion. I don't need you to tell me what to do in a relationship, that's not what this forum is for.
All I need is advice to help us get his LTVP smoothly as I'm not experienced with having a foreign partner, and I'm not good with all these complicated procedures to get him to settle down with me in Singapore.
what you want is to be spoon fed a guaranteed solution to the problem you face.
you guys want to move out of your family home to be together and start a new life together. i get it.
if you rush into this now and he remains jobless, you’ll only have a few hundred bucks spare change each month, and that’s on a very austere lifestyle for you both.
you’re “not kids” so you ought to know better. the people here are on your side. but they are also realistic and when combined have tons more i sight than you and i do.
life in singapore is more “highway” than your way. good luck. i hope it works out. live long. prosper.
k bye.