Thanks for the thoughtful and detailed reply.MOCHS wrote: ↑Tue, 02 Aug 2022 9:36 pmThis is going to be a very long complicated discussion with no right or wrong.
The “you” I am using in this post is a generic “you” and not targeting any specific member in particular.
SG has no natural resources to speak of and needs people. The only way to get people will be through PR & citizenship.
Ultimately, I feel the endgame of PR is citizenship but some just stay maybe a few years before going home or somewhere else like Australia, UK, US, etc.
Majority of the SG population are probably not financially privileged enough to be one of the 200K+ overseas Singaporeans. Being able to go overseas to study/work is a luxury many take for granted. Some are stuck in the cycle of low income if they are not given the opportunity. Sometimes they forgo opportunity to feed their families.
If you can see things from their POV instead of constantly repeating that “SG is so bloody expensive for so many essentials and quality of life sucks balls here, I am going back home forever when the kids go to college.”
Do you understand that you are rubbing it in people’s faces that you see SG as a temporary place to hoard savings while preparing an exit plan? You are already an outsider, coming into SG as an expat with higher than average pay and staying in cushy private housing. You are already a lot more privileged than an average Singaporean. Sure, you can do whatever you want since it’s your life but have some EQ lah. SG gave you a place to work and stay but you see it as purely “business”.
The only “abuse” I can think of are:
- PR people in the past bringing in their “entire village of relatives” to SG and trying to get PR for them but never really integrating into SG.
- Getting PR for self but not for son is very telling the PRs don’t wanna stay here forever. Or they managed to get PR for son but pulled out of SG early ‘cos they feel two years of character building is a waste of time.
It’s more of reaping the benefits and saying kthxbyebyeSG than outright “abuse”.
Benefits a PR has:
1. Being able to buy HDB aka subsidised housing
2. Subsidised healthcare
3. Subsidised education in local schools (I’m not looking at IP through-train to A lvl sec schools ‘cos their pricing is different)
4. Being able to stay essentially forever in SG without being worried on whether they can continue to stay on their EP, S-pass, LTVP, dependent pass, etc.
Yes, I know the subsidy isn’t as much as a citizen but some money discounted is better than no money at all.
For point 4, it is definitely less stressful if you don’t have to fret about your visa status yearly (or every couple of years). As long as you’re working and in SG majority of the time, re-entry permit (REP) should be renewed without a problem.
For point 3, saves a lot of money if the kid isn’t in International School.
For point 2, I know some PR just go back to their home country for medical treatment if it’s cheaper (or free) there than here. I have no issues with that.
For point 1… I won’t be surprised if many PRs secretly hold onto their property overseas while having HDB here. Easy to rent out the house overseas and get some side income while staying in the HDB. Or vice versa, stay overseas most of the time but rent out the HDB. Other than the affluent, how many average Singaporeans have at least two properties?
Of course there are PRs who ain’t expats and integrated well into SG. I have no problems with them.
I do acknowledge there are Singaporeans themselves that have an exit plan to retire elsewhere but somehow, they don’t seem to be treated as harshly. Humans are strange…
Should there be a penalty for “abusing PR”? No lah, we will be ridiculed. No other country implements penalties for PRs, to my knowledge.
At the end of the day, there’s still a bit of “them vs us” mentality which causes the discourse. Perhaps we should learn to just be happy for each other for being able to work towards their goal without bearing ill will. Maybe people are just sad a friend they’ve had for so many years goes away for good.
I know one American guy who was a partner at major consulting firm here in the 2000’s… he converted to SG citizenship purely for the tax reasons. He was making 7 figures annually, so he must have thought - why not save a big 6 figure tax bill each year?smoulder wrote: ↑Tue, 02 Aug 2022 10:39 pmI think MOCHS covered most of the major points.
My own 2 cents. I'll bet that whichever country you go to, there will be *some* locally born person or the other who harbors a grudge (?) against either PRs or new citizens for "using" the country or not integrating. It's just inevitable. There will always be the us vs them syndrome.
The thing with integration is that most adults who immigrate will find it quite difficult to integrate till the extent where you would not be able to tell that they weren't always born in that country. It's things like accents and words /slang that will easily give them away - you can only integrate so much. Of course you need to try. I do know of people who have gone all the way and become citizens and who still quite detached from their new countries. In other countries, it wouldn't matter as much because of their size and scale, but it really is a big deal in this tiny island.
That is probably true, but I have also known many true blue Singaporeans, born and raised here, that want nothing more than to leave. Most of these folks have quite a chip on their shoulder. And do you know what really sets them off? Trying to say something positive about Singapore. Especially me, as an ang moh, who can never understand their plight. I quickly learned my lesson!
LOL I hear you.malcontent wrote: ↑Tue, 02 Aug 2022 11:22 pmThat is probably true, but I have also known many true blue Singaporeans, born and raised here, that want nothing more than to leave. Most of these folks have quite a chip on their shoulder. And do you know what really sets them off? Trying to say something positive about Singapore. Especially me, as an ang moh, who can never understand their plight. I quickly learned my lesson!
You’re right, but instead of a bad break up, I think they would describe if as if they are an abused partner… they really feel victimized and exploited, but like you said, still attached.smoulder wrote: ↑Wed, 03 Aug 2022 1:08 amLOL I hear you.malcontent wrote: ↑Tue, 02 Aug 2022 11:22 pmThat is probably true, but I have also known many true blue Singaporeans, born and raised here, that want nothing more than to leave. Most of these folks have quite a chip on their shoulder. And do you know what really sets them off? Trying to say something positive about Singapore. Especially me, as an ang moh, who can never understand their plight. I quickly learned my lesson!
But I do feel that it is possibly a lot more complicated.... Kind of like a bad break up. The attachment is still there, but there's an overwhelming feeling of bitterness and resentment, sometimes irrational.
Yeah, if a fellow Singaporean has an exit plan, most of us just react with “Okay, go lor.”
I do believe people could show their host country a bit more respect. No place is perfect but at any point in time they could have returned home or moved on elsewhere. The decision to stay here (or anywhere) as a guest is voluntary. Presumably, at every point along the way they thought SG was better than their alternative?MOCHS wrote: ↑Tue, 02 Aug 2022 9:36 pm.....
If you can see things from their POV instead of constantly repeating that “SG is so bloody expensive for so many essentials and quality of life sucks balls here, I am going back home forever when the kids go to college.”
Do you understand that you are rubbing it in people’s faces that you see SG as a temporary place to hoard savings while preparing an exit plan? You are already an outsider, coming into SG as an expat with higher than average pay and staying in cushy private housing. You are already a lot more privileged than an average Singaporean. Sure, you can do whatever you want since it’s your life but have some EQ lah. SG gave you a place to work and stay but you see it as purely “business”.
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For these points, I would add that non-SC is not allowed to rent out the HDB (if they are overseas or living in condo). If they are doing so, they are doing it illegally.MOCHS wrote: ↑Tue, 02 Aug 2022 9:36 pm.....
Benefits a PR has:
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3. Subsidised education in local schools (I’m not looking at IP through-train to A lvl sec schools ‘cos their pricing is different)
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For point 1… I won’t be surprised if many PRs secretly hold onto their property overseas while having HDB here. Easy to rent out the house overseas and get some side income while staying in the HDB. Or vice versa, stay overseas most of the time but rent out the HDB. Other than the affluent, how many average Singaporeans have at least two properties?
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