Great points bro but being away from India for last 22 years and in this country for last 9 years I don’t see myself going back ever or I hope I don’t be forced to go back ever.
I know people are struggling big time in India now mostly the middle class, the rich ones are getting richer as everywhere in the world, the pollution the population the corruption will be too much for someone whose outside India for 22 years,
I don’t have much family ties there so I went there hardly 3 times in the last 22 years to settle my finances and bank accounts most of the time.
Now I don’t even have a bank account ..
The last I went there was in 2016 and I don’t plan to go back ever even for a short visit .
You are right we are doing well as compared to other people but also the pressure is to maintain that and do better.. anyways I believe grass is always greener on the other side when it comes to having the number 1 passport in the world.. thanks for taking time to comment bro
Wd40 wrote: ↑Wed, 23 Nov 2022 5:00 pm
truthhurts1 wrote: ↑Wed, 23 Nov 2022 3:17 pm
Now It’s my insecurities and failures that are speaking here, feel absolutely and utterly depressed with the fact that I spent 9 years chasing something that will never be achievable , most important reasons is for being born in the wrong country which cannot be controlled .. some people might have already crossed the journey from EP to SC prolly in a period of 10-12 years
I think Malcontent mentioned in some thread, it seems just because something is very difficult to achieve makes people think it is worthwhile achieving it. We are smart enough to know, that is not the case. Everyone gets their fair share of good and bad luck and I would say, we are doing much better than the average person out there in this world. Definitely not born in the wrong country. I mean take a look around you at all the Singaporeans who were born here have the pink IC with them and then see what you have achieved v/s what they have achieved. Just having the best passport in the world is of no good, if you dont even have enough money to cross the border.
I feel 1st gen immigrants do very well, whereever we go, we just set the bar too high for ourselves and then look at only what we didnt achieve. In my opinion, there is no need of any PR or citizenship as a 1st gen immigrant, we have already achieved what we had to. People generally apply PR or citizenship to set a platform for their kids. If you get PR or citizenship, you think your struggle is over, far from the truth, your struggle really starts from that point
You then suddenly find out you need to match up with 1st world standards and costs for the rest of your life. Without PR/citizenship, we could just go back to our home country and have a relaxed life. I know you want to totally dismiss that idea that you can go back, but I would suggest keep an open mind India is really doing well right now and looking at the lifestyle and spending power of the people there we look like misers out here, travelling in MRT and living in HDBs.