Lisafuller wrote: ↑Tue, 30 Aug 2022 1:19 am
Then the question would have to be where the expert was moving from, if they were moving from somewhere where the quality of life was considerably lower, then living small here would not take much of an adjustment as it would arguably still present a better quality of life than living in the home country. If, on the other hand, said expat was moving from a country in which he enjoyed a very high quality of life, living in a small house and having to take public transport and eat in all the time would certainly come as a surprise.
It is more nuanced. There is this materialistic quality of life and then the intangible quality of life, if I may call so. India is great for materialistic quality of life, you can buy an awesome car and a nice bunglow for a fraction of the cost in Singapore. You can have a maid, a driver, home delivery of everything for very cheap etc.
However, on the intangible quality of life side, Singapore trumps most countries. Women feel so empowered here, they can walk alone in the night, travel in public transport without any fear of molestation. In India, my wife doesnt know how to drive, so she would always depend on me or she will have to use Uber and there is constant fear of safety. Same for my daughter. Here in Singapore, my daughter takes the public bus, 5 bus stops from my house to her school, she is so independent here.
Then even though we live in HDB here it is open we leave our main doors open and have no fear, there is no need of any security. I laugh at the crazy levels of
condo security, at the main gate and then at the tower gate, lol, what for? It feels as if condo dwellers live in a prison and visitors have so much protocol to follow just to visit them. HDBs are so open and welcoming. Then there are free public parks, cheap and nice public swimming pools, awesome public transport, clean and polution free air, drinking water directly from the tap etc. In India, even to step out and buy something, you will have to take your car or a motorbike out, you cannot just walk, there are no footpaths, you have to cross the road without zebra crossing, just run across and hope no vehicle hits you.
So I believe that when you are in Rome do what the Romans do. Singapore is not great for materialistic quality of life, so it is would be stupid for an expat to come here and try to replicate their overseas materialistic quality of life here. It is going to be crazy expensive, just dont come here at all. However, if you can, appreciate the intangible quality of life that Singapore offers and make good use of it while you are here. When you go back to India, you will anyways have to spend money to make up for what the state doesnt provide you. So go there, then buy a car and a nice bunglow, keep a maid and driver also if you want and enjoy the materialistic quality of life. Atleast when you go back you feel some upside even though you give up on a lot of intangible aspects of quality of life.