I am very sure a co-owner can't just let a stranger in to the house to use the house facilities and violating the privacy of the occupants, all without a consent from the other co-owner. This especially if the place is occupied by the co-owners. I suggest you and your father seek a layer's advice.Qiao1117 wrote: ↑Sat, 11 Dec 2021 9:18 pmI'm currently 20 years old, going to work study diploma in ite in April next year. Parents has always been in bad terms and it has gotten worst this year when my mom decides to let a friend of hers to use the address of our current house as the person doesn't have a residential address and everything was done behind my dad's back first it was just official letters then the stranger lived outside of our house for at least 3 days and he entered my house to bathe and charge phone etc which I felt very uncomfortable firstly he is a grown man and I'm just a female student trying to have online classes. There was once he just entered the house when my mom was sleeping he unlocked the door with her keys to use the toilet although it was just for awhile it makes me feel extremely unsafe and uncomfortable. Then he starts ordering items from like shoppee etc as if like its his own house and I've encountered someone knocking on the door and asked me if is there any kids below a certain age that's living here(which is his child, and there's isn't any other child other than me) I tried reaching to the police but seems like nothing could be done as my mom is the Co owner of the house and she allowed everything to happen and both me and my dad couldn't do anything about it. I'm really sick of living with her as she always creates noise (like blasting videos and songs at full volume sometimes even with speakers) even when I'm in online classes or when I'm sleeping both of us feedback to her many times about it and she doesn't even listen and continue to do so.
Hope I could get some advice on how to rent a house/room with a pet cat and hamster as it seems like this matter wouldn't be solved unless they are divorced which needs alot money and my dad isn't capable of paying that huge amount of money because he still needs to feed me+ the bills and everything for this house
This is unlikely a criminal offense so neither police nor any official would step in. This is a civil matter.Qiao1117 wrote: ↑Sun, 12 Dec 2021 4:24 pmHi we tried contacting police and the mp about it. But we were told that because she "invited" him in they gave the example of if I were to invite friends in the house its totally fine yea I understand that but the main concern is on the usage on address especially when it could be on his nric but we can't confirm if it is on his nric anot><
x9200 wrote: ↑Sun, 12 Dec 2021 5:23 pmThis is unlikely a criminal offense so neither police nor any official would step in. This is a civil matter.Qiao1117 wrote: ↑Sun, 12 Dec 2021 4:24 pmHi we tried contacting police and the mp about it. But we were told that because she "invited" him in they gave the example of if I were to invite friends in the house its totally fine yea I understand that but the main concern is on the usage on address especially when it could be on his nric but we can't confirm if it is on his nric anot><
If you think this situation is legally ok, imagine not one stranger but 10 occupying the property 24/7. Following your logic this should be also fine as long as one of the co-owners agrees. It strips down the other co-owner from executing or enjoying his rights to the property and he has the rights to do this without any doubts. So the only question here is where you would draw the line. IMO if such action significantly violates privacy of the occupants the line is already crossed.
And inviting friends is something different because this is incidental and what you described is something that appears to be regular or very frequent. You also don't pass the keys to the house to your friends, especially if you are not the only occupant, right?
But if the only issue is related to the use of the address, then I don't think you have the case - this is something minor and not interfering any significantly with the right of the co-owner or the occupants to the property.
I believe the mandatory reporting of any change in the address is to have the authorities informed of the residential address (so where one actually lives). This is something different than providing a contact address, so I would expect it may be an offense to provide it untruly. Just check at any NPS.Qiao1117 wrote: ↑Sun, 12 Dec 2021 6:36 pmI just replied but somehow it didn't get posted fjjdjdje
For now he didn't live outside my house (he stayed for around 3 days or a little longer) he happened to meet my father on his last day of staying outside and he told my dad proudly that he has the address here??( I think he refers to the nric) is it even legal to even use a address that doesn't belongs to him and he doesn't even stay here? ( and its based on "lending address as the place he stays doesn't have a mail box" but he's using it for even parcels as if it's his own house??)
If one of the Co owners did it behind the other co-owner back does that mean there's really nothing could be done because my mom allowed it and we can't even remove his name and letters to even come in? And the fact that my mom is collecting his mail just to prevent us for taking evidence is just ridiculous, she's against the whole family just to protect a bloody friend?? Then she self claim that she's a mom?? Which mom does that and make everyone in the house feel uncomfortable.
Both my father and I feel extremely uncomfortable for a stranger to have our address and it could even be on his nric which means if he were to engage illegal activities this house is on danger?? Although he hasn't done anything illegal but we're trying to prevent him to do so. Wouldn't it be too late if it was already done and police would take 10 thousand years just to investigate lol
Off the record, there are actually no repercussions for raising a cat in an HDB unit, its the same reason why many HDB residents are cat owners. In this case, you will just need to make sure your prospective landlord is agreeable to you bringing your pets in, assuming you are renting a room and not the whole unit.Qiao1117 wrote: ↑Sat, 11 Dec 2021 9:18 pmI'm currently 20 years old, going to work study diploma in ite in April next year. Parents has always been in bad terms and it has gotten worst this year when my mom decides to let a friend of hers to use the address of our current house as the person doesn't have a residential address and everything was done behind my dad's back first it was just official letters then the stranger lived outside of our house for at least 3 days and he entered my house to bathe and charge phone etc which I felt very uncomfortable firstly he is a grown man and I'm just a female student trying to have online classes. There was once he just entered the house when my mom was sleeping he unlocked the door with her keys to use the toilet although it was just for awhile it makes me feel extremely unsafe and uncomfortable. Then he starts ordering items from like shoppee etc as if like its his own house and I've encountered someone knocking on the door and asked me if is there any kids below a certain age that's living here(which is his child, and there's isn't any other child other than me) I tried reaching to the police but seems like nothing could be done as my mom is the Co owner of the house and she allowed everything to happen and both me and my dad couldn't do anything about it. I'm really sick of living with her as she always creates noise (like blasting videos and songs at full volume sometimes even with speakers) even when I'm in online classes or when I'm sleeping both of us feedback to her many times about it and she doesn't even listen and continue to do so.
Hope I could get some advice on how to rent a house/room with a pet cat and hamster as it seems like this matter wouldn't be solved unless they are divorced which needs alot money and my dad isn't capable of paying that huge amount of money because he still needs to feed me+ the bills and everything for this house
Most condos are pet-friendly, but something most people don't know is that there is no repurcussion to keeping a cat in an HDB unit. The government can neither take away your animal nor fine or charge you for it.smoulder wrote: ↑Sun, 12 Dec 2021 11:09 amI gather it might take quite a bit of searching before you do find a pet friendly place to rent.
Not sure what your budget is, but there's a higher chance that it will have to be a condo room.
Quick online search came up with this
https://www.roomies.sg/rooms/pet-friendly
Have you tried speaking to your mom about this? If you and your dad have an open conversation with her she may be more understanding of your feelings than you would expect. Would be much easier and less expensive than striking out on your own and renting a place.Qiao1117 wrote: ↑Sun, 12 Dec 2021 4:24 pmHi we tried contacting police and the mp about it. But we were told that because she "invited" him in they gave the example of if I were to invite friends in the house its totally fine yea I understand that but the main concern is on the usage on address especially when it could be on his nric but we can't confirm if it is on his nric anot><
Pretty sure most CCs also have meet the people sessions (although they may be online for the time being) where residents can go in and speak to MPs, and thereafter get help to deal with the situation (including getting pro-bono legal advice).
Yep agreed on all those points. I think what they mean by pet friendly would mean that the landlord is OK with pets.Lisafuller wrote: ↑Sat, 18 Dec 2021 3:28 amMost condos are pet-friendly, but something most people don't know is that there is no repurcussion to keeping a cat in an HDB unit. The government can neither take away your animal nor fine or charge you for it.smoulder wrote: ↑Sun, 12 Dec 2021 11:09 amI gather it might take quite a bit of searching before you do find a pet friendly place to rent.
Not sure what your budget is, but there's a higher chance that it will have to be a condo room.
Quick online search came up with this
https://www.roomies.sg/rooms/pet-friendly
I see. That’s definitely a relevant concern.smoulder wrote: ↑Sat, 18 Dec 2021 3:58 pmYep agreed on all those points. I think what they mean by pet friendly would mean that the landlord is OK with pets.Lisafuller wrote: ↑Sat, 18 Dec 2021 3:28 amMost condos are pet-friendly, but something most people don't know is that there is no repurcussion to keeping a cat in an HDB unit. The government can neither take away your animal nor fine or charge you for it.smoulder wrote: ↑Sun, 12 Dec 2021 11:09 amI gather it might take quite a bit of searching before you do find a pet friendly place to rent.
Not sure what your budget is, but there's a higher chance that it will have to be a condo room.
Quick online search came up with this
https://www.roomies.sg/rooms/pet-friendly
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