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You just have to figure out an angle. There is one for everyone. Funny though, acting never got into the way of my introversion. I was playing a part. I had a fixed dialog. Not the same.
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Fear of being rejected?
Oh, happy birthday then!sundaymorningstaple wrote: ↑Sun, 05 Sep 2021 8:51 pmBut having past 74 years 5 days ago, I don't reckon I'll change too much in the time I have left.![]()
sundaymorningstaple wrote: ↑Sun, 05 Sep 2021 8:51 pmYou just have to figure out an angle. There is one for everyone.
I’m the exact same way. It is not fear of rejection… that is what extroverts suffer from. In fact, it’s not a fear at all… it’s just an overwhelming desire for self-reliance.
Could you tell now, sms? I'm just curioussundaymorningstaple wrote: ↑Sun, 05 Sep 2021 7:57 pmSome funny anecdotal stories to be told from that interview but that for another time.
Sms, do you think reapplying too quickly (after 6 months or 1 year) deteriorates the applicant's chances? In my opinion, trying too hard is as bad as not doing enough. That's not only about PR. That's in general.sundaymorningstaple wrote: ↑Mon, 06 Sep 2021 10:19 pmBut if one only waits a year, applies, and is rejected, you will see a lot of them have been applying annually and have been rejected 4 or 5 times. but if they apply after the first rejection at one year and then wait two years before reapplying, quite often they are then successful. Read into it what you want. Our way generally takes two to four years, the other way take 3 to 5 years or more.
Well, I'd fully agree if we were talking about a married couple from the same country or the EU. You lose your jobs; you both go home. Where home is the same country.sundaymorningstaple wrote: ↑Wed, 08 Sep 2021 12:13 pmTo me, and I would hazard a guess, most of the long-term regulars on this board will concur, it does appear that applying in less than an year does have the pong of desperation in it. This, if I were an ICA officer, would get my spidey senses aroused as to why. Were they afraid of losing their job and get sent packing?
Then you can party like a maharaja!PartyLike-A-Russian wrote: ↑Wed, 08 Sep 2021 12:39 pmSame applies to me going to India. I feel like it could be fun to go and meet her family someday and not for working and living. I'd be the only white guy in town![]()
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