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by korosensei » Tue, 12 Jan 2021 10:24 pm
This has been my motto for this year. I mean Im not suicidal but thinking that all of us will die makes me enjoy the present. Am I normal?
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by malcontent » Wed, 13 Jan 2021 9:18 am
The first part “we will die anyways” is right thinking - absolutely no value in worrying.
The second part “why care about others” is wrong thinking - there is great value in caring about others... it’s probably the one thing that provides the most fulfillment in life.
It is impossible for a man to learn what he thinks he already knows - Epictetus
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by malcontent » Tue, 23 Feb 2021 1:42 pm
Good point, everyone needs some “me time” - to get away and have some solitude... reflect on the past, evaluate the now and contemplate the future.
It is impossible for a man to learn what he thinks he already knows - Epictetus
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by PNGMK » Tue, 23 Feb 2021 2:30 pm
It sounds like Hedonism. Not a great path to go down as it usually ends with you dying in a gutter with a needle in your arm.
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by malcontent » Tue, 23 Feb 2021 2:56 pm
Stoicism beats Hedonism every time.
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by PNGMK » Wed, 24 Feb 2021 1:26 pm
malcontent wrote: ↑Tue, 23 Feb 2021 2:56 pm
Stoicism beats Hedonism every time.
Nihilism will just make you disappear into a never ending loop.
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by Lisafuller » Thu, 25 Feb 2021 12:58 am
While it is true that we will all die eventually, the idea that we have no reason to care for others is a pretty bad attitude to adopt. Like malcontent wrote, there is great value in caring for others. It is the relationships we foster with others that make our lives worth living.
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by PNGMK » Thu, 25 Feb 2021 11:13 am
Agreed Lisa. Material possessions are nothing in the long run. To an agnostic or atheist their only immortality is what people remember of them once they are dead.
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