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should we check our partner phone ?
should we check our partner phone ?
just out of curious, did you guys check your partner's phone ? 

- sundaymorningstaple
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Re: should we check our partner phone ?
No. Why? Should I?
I reckon if I thought I needed to check their phone I shouldn't have married/shacked up with them. Should they, on the other hand, check yours? 


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Re: should we check our partner phone ?
why check your partner phone? unless both of you guys are okay with looking at each other phone. 

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Re: should we check our partner phone ?
I don't really check on my partner phone, but sometimes just happened to get it from him to 'play' or update his phone.
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Re: should we check our partner phone ?
That's a big no-no!
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Re: should we check our partner phone ?
Here is one of the lines that I live by:
When in doubt, do without.
Not sure if someone came up with this line before I did, but it has served me well.
Whether it’s trying to decide whether to buy something at the store or whether to pursue someone or remain in a relationship... if you have doubts, there is usually a good reason. Maybe not always, but certainly more often than not.
I guess what I’m trying to say is, if you doubt your parter enough to want to access their phone, something is probably wrong with them (or wrong with you).
When in doubt, do without.
Not sure if someone came up with this line before I did, but it has served me well.
Whether it’s trying to decide whether to buy something at the store or whether to pursue someone or remain in a relationship... if you have doubts, there is usually a good reason. Maybe not always, but certainly more often than not.
I guess what I’m trying to say is, if you doubt your parter enough to want to access their phone, something is probably wrong with them (or wrong with you).

It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters ~ Epictetus
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Re: should we check our partner phone ?
That or you worked an offshore drilling rig in the O&G industry!



SOME PEOPLE TRY TO TURN BACK THEIR ODOMETERS. NOT ME. I WANT PEOPLE TO KNOW WHY I LOOK THIS WAY. I'VE TRAVELED A LONG WAY, AND SOME OF THE ROADS WEREN'T PAVED. ~ Will Rogers
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Re: should we check our partner phone ?
Checking their phone is a huge no for me. It’s a huge breach of trust, if you have doubts or suspicions, just be straightforward and ask. Save yourself any unnecessary misunderstanding.
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