Hi,
You've come to the right place (e.g. the forum). There are a number of regular contributors who clearly have good experience of both places. Personally, I've lived in Singapore for nearly 12 years, with a couple of years in the middle when I lived in Japan (my wife is Japanese). So I'll give you my opinion, which of course may or may not be the same as anyone elses ...
aitokyo wrote:First question: Any idea how the quality of life between Tokyo and Singapore, work and personal/family (I am married with three kids).
Both Tokyo & Singapore offer very good quality of living, but in very different styles;
Singapore is much less intense, more relaxed (that's good -and- bad), more convenient (in terms of getting around, for example), generally much cheaper (cars being the notable exception to this), far easier for foreigners (even if you speak Japanese, in Japan you're still geijin!).
Japan has far more to offer 'in-country' in terms of entertainment, sightseeing, places for weekend breaks (though of course it's easy to go other places outside Singapore), the service quality is unparalleled, and you can get -anything- with a massive selection of choices.
Both countries are very safe, great place to live with or without family.
Regarding family, it rather depends on how you approach living here. In both countries you can raise your children as 'expat kids', but I personally think in Japan you've got a chance to have a relatively normal family life, with neighbours, community etc. For 90% of foreigner families (just guessing at the number) in Singapore, their kids will certainly gain a very wide exposure to different cultures, and that's fantastic, but I think they grow up believing they're something special and better in some way than the locals. Again, that's just my personal opinion.
I believe it can be very hard for wives (I'm assuming you're the husband) to settle in Japan, unless they speak the language. Not a problem in Singapore.
I struggle to express why I prefer Japan (which I do), because Singapore is certainly a very pleasant place to live. The best I can manage is to say that, to me, Japan is more 'real' (man, I'm gonna get flamed for THAT

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aitokyo wrote:Second question: ... Can I get an EP without any sponsorship?
I believe the answer is no.
Hope this helps. I'm sure you'll get lots of varied and informed opinions, as well as the usual bunch of rubbish.
Good luck trying to sort it out!
