I've been divorced and living in Singapore alone now for almost 6 years and I've had the pleasure of becoming friends with so many wonderful men and women who support me today.
Yet something always seems to be a common topic - and that's how to deal with a break up. I went through some messy times post-divorce too - with an elder guy that left SG and moved to Cambodia and I didn't even find out about his abrupt, permanent decision until he uploaded a selfie on Instagram!!! He even hashtagged "bestdecisionever" :'(
I've had so many drunken nights at Wine Connection, just pouring my heart out to my friends, constantly asking for advice, or just thinking what I did wrong.
I went through such a depressed stage for about a year and a half and honestly,
this is in no way putting out an ad - but because so many of my expat and local friends go through this horrific time one of them suggested I put this out there....because this 1 book really changed my life. And it is changing everyone's life around me too, now that they know about it.
I keep re-reading it, thinking that if only I had gotten my hands on it earlier, everything would make so much more sense and I wouldn't have made a fool of myself, calling my ex at odd times of the month. I'm an overthinker and I know most of you must be too...
This book is so empowering and it's made me stop doubting myself. It's called "Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You"
There's a direct link here:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0738213284/
That's a hell of a lot of work for a spammer to go thru to get an affiliate link to Amazon!
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I hope this somehow helps someone out here....remember you're not alone...we all go through terrible breakups and pitfalls but it is up to us to build our strength!
Best Regards,
Mindy