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The Best Breakup Advice I got

Postby yoyodolly » Wed, 21 Feb 2018 12:47 pm

I've been divorced and living in Singapore alone now for almost 6 years and I've had the pleasure of becoming friends with so many wonderful men and women who support me today.

Yet something always seems to be a common topic - and that's how to deal with a break up. I went through some messy times post-divorce too - with an elder guy that left SG and moved to Cambodia and I didn't even find out about his abrupt, permanent decision until he uploaded a selfie on Instagram!!! He even hashtagged "bestdecisionever" :'(

I've had so many drunken nights at Wine Connection, just pouring my heart out to my friends, constantly asking for advice, or just thinking what I did wrong.

I went through such a depressed stage for about a year and a half and honestly, this is in no way putting out an ad - but because so many of my expat and local friends go through this horrific time one of them suggested I put this out there....because this 1 book really changed my life. And it is changing everyone's life around me too, now that they know about it.

I keep re-reading it, thinking that if only I had gotten my hands on it earlier, everything would make so much more sense and I wouldn't have made a fool of myself, calling my ex at odd times of the month. I'm an overthinker and I know most of you must be too...

This book is so empowering and it's made me stop doubting myself. It's called "Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You"

There's a direct link here:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0738213284/

That's a hell of a lot of work for a spammer to go thru to get an affiliate link to Amazon!

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I hope this somehow helps someone out here....remember you're not alone...we all go through terrible breakups and pitfalls but it is up to us to build our strength!

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Re: The Best Breakup Advice I got

Postby BBCDoc » Wed, 21 Feb 2018 9:35 pm

So what advice specifically changed your life?

Realising that you alone are responsible for your decisions and destiny?


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Re: The Best Breakup Advice I got

Postby sundaymorningstaple » Wed, 21 Feb 2018 10:46 pm

At first read your post definitely smells like a advertisement, but after doing some checking, I'm going to let it stay. - moderator

Yes, I thought it was advertising as well and checked it over... and let it stay. Depends on what happens next, methinks.

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Re: The Best Breakup Advice I got

Postby PNGMK » Thu, 22 Feb 2018 8:45 am

Tell me more about Wine Connection?
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Re: The Best Breakup Advice I got

Postby Max Headroom » Thu, 22 Feb 2018 10:07 am

PNGMK wrote:Tell me more about Wine Connection?


LOL

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Re: The Best Breakup Advice I got

Postby Strong Eagle » Thu, 22 Feb 2018 11:46 am

PNGMK wrote:Tell me more about Wine Connection?


Have us mods been had? Is this really a tout for Wine Connection?

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Re: The Best Breakup Advice I got

Postby Max Headroom » Thu, 22 Feb 2018 1:30 pm

Personally, I figure it's a bit of both. I think a Samaritan might plug a book if it was particularly helpful to him/her. But I doubt that he/she would go so far as to add a purchase link.

The fact that the link in question is way longer than a straight-up Amazon link to that book should be makes me a bit suspicious. Is there a reference ID to an affiliate account in that link? Not sure. But if there is, our Samaritan may make a few bucks off her recommendation. Fine if he/she were a regular. A one-off poster... not so much.

The Wine Connection mention is bonus I reckon :)

Disclaimer: All of the above is full-on conjecture on my part.

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Re: The Best Breakup Advice I got

Postby Strong Eagle » Thu, 22 Feb 2018 1:56 pm

Max Headroom wrote:Is there a reference ID to an affiliate account in that link?
The Wine Connection mention is bonus I reckon :)

Disclaimer: All of the above is full-on conjecture on my part.


I think Max has pinged this one spot on. Indeed, there is an affiliate account reference in that link, to whit:

tag=yoyodollysg

I'm going to doll up that link so you can look at the book without her affiliate tag.

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Re: The Best Breakup Advice I got

Postby sundaymorningstaple » Thu, 22 Feb 2018 2:06 pm

I was playing with that about an hour ago and was on the same track. I found the dolly link in the Amazon link when I opened it up again. I then did a regular search on Amazon and of course it didn't have the tag in the address line. I figured that somehow she was getting a bene from it but damned if I know how so I decided to go have lunch and would look at it later. Still I am a bit dense, as I don't get the Wine Connection bit?

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Re: The Best Breakup Advice I got

Postby the lynx » Thu, 22 Feb 2018 2:28 pm

I'll sign on any advice that can be found at the bottom of a wine bottle! :mrgreen:

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Re: The Best Breakup Advice I got

Postby Addadude » Thu, 22 Feb 2018 3:15 pm

sundaymorningstaple wrote:Still I am a bit dense, as I don't get the Wine Connection bit?


I think that was the TS' attempt at localising their message.
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