I kissed a maid and crapped in my nest

[PNGMK]

Have some faith in the police. Cooperate with them. You're not the first idiot to shit where he eats.

[PNGMK]

Hi , please help! My former Indonesian FDW destroying my life. Have you been in similar circumstances or know anyone who been?!!!.
I cant take this anymore!

She accused me for molesting her and I have done nothing wrong than I screwed up by having a relation with her ( we kissed several time) and no doubts she seduced me ( to detailed to write it here)..I was stupid and fell for it. Before that she asked about money, loan, go party etc etc. I said no always.. expect a couple of time where i helped her family back home with money. We started to have a relationship ( yes stupid me) shortly after things start to disappear such as money, gold, etc etc and she start wear new cloth, expensive gold.. proofs are there. In fact when the police came they found some minor stolen item in her room. She did a police report against me the day after i fired her on molesting and she run away. their is police report against her for theft.

As i am foreigner they took my passport and this is the worst time in my life with thousands of reasons i want this over and cant wait. I have lawyer, i have done my statement, we have sent in representation. Iam also prepared to compensate and even applied for it without any admit guilt. Iam prepared to do polygraph.. I want this nightmare over I have never been involved in a police case.

What can be done? Pls help. I can't take it any more. Police take their time but i dont have any time before it gets worst!

Any maid case u been involved in? How was it solved? Will procecuter agree to compaund the case when its a maid? So this can speed up? I dont care about money at this point or if she gets punshied or not. I just want this over now!

QFP

[PNGMK]

OP wants post deleted.

No chance.

[MrEgon]

Either you give her a big amount of money to shut her mouth up, or sooner or later you leave Singapore. That's the price you have learned. Lessons aren't for free.

[earthfriendly]

Either you give her a big amount of money to shut her mouth up

That happened to somebody I know. A friend's father. He is a nice and decent guy, with grand kids to boot. It is biologically difficult for a man to say no to a woman's advance. Unfortunately, there are women out there who will not hesitate to exploit this weakness. And the family suspected this was not the first time for this maid.

[PNGMK]

Just to make it clear I am not the IOP (Idiotic Original Poster).

[ecureilx]

Just to make it clear I am not the IOP (Idiotic Original Poster).

Really ?



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[PNGMK]

Just to make it clear I am not the IOP (Idiotic Original Poster).

Really ?



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Yeah because the OP deleted his message and account the posts are a bit jumbled.

[Wd40]

Many of my colleagues are very trigger happy to hire a maid and send their wives to work. I tell them it is a land mine, be very careful. I let my wife stay at home and do household work, we don't want to get into any kind of mess.

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[PNGMK]

Many of my colleagues are very trigger happy to hire a maid and send their wives to work. I tell them it is a land mine, be very careful. I let my wife stay at home and do household work, we don't want to get into any kind of mess.

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Yep. Smart man.

[Frankieoh]

Lesson learned the hard way. Don't screw up on maids!

[the lynx]

Many of my colleagues are very trigger happy to hire a maid and send their wives to work. I tell them it is a land mine, be very careful. I let my wife stay at home and do household work, we don't want to get into any kind of mess.

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Yep. Smart man.

I don't trust maids, or having a staff (if that's how you refer to domestic helpers) living in your space. Never grow up with one anyway. Either hire legal part-time maid, or suck it and juggle your career with chores.

[PNGMK]

Many of my colleagues are very trigger happy to hire a maid and send their wives to work. I tell them it is a land mine, be very careful. I let my wife stay at home and do household work, we don't want to get into any kind of mess.

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Yep. Smart man.

I don't trust maids, or having a staff (if that's how you refer to domestic helpers) living in your space. Never grow up with one anyway. Either hire legal part-time maid, or suck it and juggle your career with chores.

Childcare is the breaking point (it was for us). You just need someone in the house so the little buggers don't throw themselves out the window or set it on fire.... and hopefully she's capable of picking them up from school as well.

[American]

This is an easy one to solve. Hire an unattractive maid!

Many of my colleagues are very trigger happy to hire a maid and send their wives to work. I tell them it is a land mine, be very careful. I let my wife stay at home and do household work, we don't want to get into any kind of mess.

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[PNGMK]

This is an easy one to solve. Hire an unattractive maid!

Many of my colleagues are very trigger happy to hire a maid and send their wives to work. I tell them it is a land mine, be very careful. I let my wife stay at home and do household work, we don't want to get into any kind of mess.

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I could say something crude but I won't.... instead I'll state that any water in a desert is fit to drink for a thirsty man.