What's the biggest social in Singapore outside a pub or bar that we can go to to connect with other folks in Singapore? Is there a favorite or popular local meetup that happens regularly? I'm not against against a pub or bar but certainly looking for something more conducive since I don't drink.

We've been to Singapore many times before and have I've actually lived there when I was a teen but our connections there are now limited and we're looking to reconnect. We're also new fish in a bowl and would love to understand how this unique city operates from those in the know.
Look forward to connecting!