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by big-eyes-maymay » Fri, 11 Nov 2005 4:10 pm
[quote="jovinliu"]Hi!
Gals/guys who are considering doing rhinoplasty, remember that Jovin and ocean11 and so many others did it, and none of us complained about very painful operation or whatsoever! So far I did lasik, botox on my jawline, rhinoplasty and eyebrow embroidery. I personally didn't regret doing any of them. You can say that i am lucky that none of these goes wrong, yes i do agree with that statement, but it really gave me so much more confidence and compliments. Say that I am vain I don't care, because who's not? I was fat, nerdy and ugly in primary and secondary school, nobody gives a damn about me. So, these years I changed my style, appearance, attitude, lost weight and got help from plastic surgeries, and I admit there are so many occasions where situations were favourable to me because of my looks. Work-wise, getting help from friends and people, getting in to pubs for free without paying cover charge, getting attention from waiters and better service etc. But of course, you have to be nice to other people, before you expect to get better treatments back.
/Jovin
Dear Jovin,
Am trying to read back all the past posts of this topic. I must say I totally agree and understand what you're saying right here.
After puberty, pimples started attacking me. To top it off, I always had dark ring circles under my eyes. People always asked me "why aren't you doing something about your face? Come on, do something about your pimples, and why are you always having that tired look?"
It hurts to hear all these remarks almost every day. People who doesn't have all these problems ALWAYS, and I mean ALWAYS like to make these kind of stupid, hurtful remarks. Some also mentioned I have big nose. Well, I can't help that! I don't have the $$ and resources to fix my "problem".
The guys I liked, just don't think I'm pretty enough. Sure, as a friend, but gf? NO WAY! Well, I told myself, when I have the money I'm gonna do something about this.
And I did! Nothing too serious, just change my apperance, dyed my hair + done straightening, went to see doctor about the pimples, went for facial etc. , wear nice "tight-fitting-sexy" clothes. Plucked a bit of eyebrow. wear a bit of make up.
Ta daa. People start paying attention! Things really does go smoothly and better for "prettier" people. You get help easily, favours given to you rather than others, you even excel in interviews! To some people, this might sound like we are making up excuses to justify our actions for going for plastic surgery or even beautifying up one self, but I think these people will never understand the harsh cruelty on ugly ducklings out there.
Right now, I just wanna do something about my dark circles. After that, time for me to stop, and enjoy life. Hopefully I will find the surgeon ethical and good enough to do a good job for his patients. Most surgeons nowadays can't seem to see beyond the dollars.
May