Plastic and cosmetic surgery abroad

[Shiyun]

[DMN]

Most of the fats would be reabsorbed by the body now, since it had been 7 years.

I should have continued my college in the year 1998, however because i fell into a major depression after my boyfriend broke off with me for another gal. I naturally resorted to cosmetic surgery to improve my self-confidence.

Unfortunately, Dr surgery didn't help me much.

I went into deeper bouts of depression after his surgery because it couldn't help me achieve what i want - my boyfriend Andy. Moles simply refused to return back to me and had developed a liking for another gal in the arts faculty of my college.

This lady was a very beautiful gal who was in chinese cultural dance team and will often perform in major events in school functions and opening ceremonials.

Hence, I felt that I couldn't face my social circle in school because everyone knows Andy had left me for a much more prettier gal. I was still immatured then, I couldn't pull myself through this embarassment and eventually gave up on my studies to pursue plastic surgery - stupid isn't it?

You can imagine how people would commit much stupidity just for "face" issues.

Now, I realized my mistakes, I become more mature, I learnt that maybe I can't give him what the other gal can give, but still I don't have to give up my studies.

omg, hugs and kisses to you, Shiyun. i hope you are far far away from the undue association between self love and your deemed lvl of attractiveness.

i saw your photos and think you have lovely eyes! it is not fair but sad that women are ALWAYS judge by skin deep attractiveness.

we should be doing self-improvements (studies, plastc surgery or enrichment course) for OURSELVES....sigh but often i believe we are all poisoned by fairy tales and perceptions - the heroine should always be beautiful. all full of you-know-what....

when one takes ownership for something like plastic surgery, the action will be measured and expectations will be reasonable. in fact, added with self-confidence ps should in such cases be effective. therefore, end results will have high lvl of self-fulfillment.

once, it becomes a useless tool for acceptance by others than he/she will be looking at endless surgeries! nobody can be forever young and beautiful physically.

i hope you havae the best revenge to your ex-bf: a happy and well adjusted life.

cheers,
dmn

[foubelle]

shiyun oh my. didnt really know you had such a past. nvm. dont care about him anymore. *hugs*

it's definitely his loss and not yours. he's only after looks mind you(not saing tht you dont have) but yi shan hai bi yi shan gao(one mountain taller than the next) there will always be people out there who seem better than you are but you must learn to see your true worth.

[foubelle]

DMN, how's the swelling/scars now? are you happy with your nose or are you going back during december to re do it?

[Jang]

We have 5 of us confirm going to BK Clinic for Beauty Enhancement on Eyes and Nose Surgery.

Myself will be doing Eyes & Nose
Gal 1 ~ rhinoplasty of silicone insertion and ear cartilage graft
Gal 2 ~ incisional blepharoplasty + levator muscle surgery
Gal 3 & 4 ~ incisional double eyelids surgery

If anyone keen to join us for this trip, do let me know or can either PM, e-mail me directly at eliza74elaine@yahoo.com.sg

These are some infomations on expense for travelling to korea :

Flying by Thai Airways - $707 include taxes
* price stated is base on what we have confirm and paid for the ticket, there might be some different for new booking but won't be too much different I guess

Airport Limousine Bus to Hotel - 8000won (est. $14) per pax

Accomodation per nite - $34 per pax ( twin room )
~Free Breakfast - They give you a free American breakfast (toast, strawberry jam, peanut jam, butter,coffee, green tea) in every morning
~Free Limousine Service - Service time : 8:00am ~ 9:00pm
Free Service : Namdamun market, Dongdaemun market, Old palaces (Downtown Area)
~Free Internet Service
~Facilities in the Room - There are double bed, twin bed, refrigerator, hair drier, hair styling, hair brush, mirror, cable TV in the bedroom and cold/hot shower, shampoo, soap, toothpaste, towels in the bathroom, NHK, Bongwhang TV, Super Action, CNTV, National Geographic, M TV, CNBC, OCN¡ On the Cable TV
~Kitchen & Laundry - They open kitchen and washing machine so you can make a food and do your washing by yourself.
**As for those who would like to save on Accomodation can stay in BK Clinic admission room for free up till 6days after surgery

[peony]

Hi Salile,


Can you please give me Dr. Lee full address with the contact numbers in Penang and if possible also website/email address. I would like to have my nose re-shape, eyes bag removed.

Thank you.

[244522]

Hi shiyun

Most guys in this society falls for girls with looks, but there are still many good guys around.

If the guy fall for looks of another girl, how long can the relationship last. Because we girls will have days that we will grow old and become not as pretty as before, with more fats and winkles. So if the guys fall for you because of your looks, next time in future when you get older, he will look out for another girl. He fail to love the true you, he lack the ability to love and thus the problems lie in him.

Thinking in a positive way that he left you for your good will helps a lot. we girls really deserve someone who truly accept us, be it we have make up or dont have make up...
If you need help or someone to talk to, can pm me.

[Pinkyice]

Hi Guys

In thailand, internet gossip , experience friend and b4 and after pics determine , we ranged 5 expert nose as following,

1.Dr.Preecha
2.Dr.Surasak
3.Dr.Kusol
4.Dr.Jarun
5.Dr.Somsak

There are highly recommended for nose in Thailand. But, you should learn each his operation style .As, you know Yanhee hospital is specific in nose but many many thai ppl are unsatisfied in her nose…..the famous place is not famous work always.Most of Asia woman walk in the hospital everyday but thai woman wanna ask them that" r u sure? "...I just wanna suggest the doctor who can match you want?..example,if you want natural look , u should go to Dr.Preecha.his style are natural,good looking but unchange your face,no high ,no fake.No one know you got a nose job if you didn't told them....but look good better..….

You can ask me about each doctor style...

WHAT ??? I dont think its a question of how "high or fake" or whose famous or who went what and when etc.... Cosmetic surgery is all about ENHANCEMENT of the physical aspects of the face or body or both. As said before, it is an ART i.e. it takes a highly aesthetic eye to visualise what s/he expects and can achieve within a framework (what one already has or born with eg. nose shape, eye size, shape etc).

Doctors cannot perform miracles alone, what they can do is make the best of what s/he knows how and do the best they can, subject to surgical techiques and/or experience (most important).

IMO, it would be silly to say to a doctor " I want a nose like this one (photo) or an eye this looks like this " when one has not done enough homework understanding the face as a whole. A slightly smaller nose might fit perfectly fine on one's face and not the other; likewise, a highly projected nose may not be harmonious to your other features like eyes, facial shape etc.

BALANCE is the key word if aesthetics in what you`re after. When you look at yourself in a photo, what is it that is out of PROPORTION to the rest of your face??? Be honest and take it from there. I would like to stress that NO ONE doctor is great at every aspect of facial enhancement. eg. I personally do not find some of the double eye lids attactive enough as opposed to some of the augmented noses - its very subjective. However, it wouldnt be silly to believe that doctors often specialise in one area for obvious logical reason(s) - THINK !

Ditto. I had rhinoplasty with Dr Sukit from Yanhee and I have to say he's really good. I am in fact quite happy that he didn't make my nose bridge too high because it will look unnatural on my face.

[Pinkyice]

Most of the fats would be reabsorbed by the body now, since it had been 7 years.

I should have continued my college in the year 1998, however because i fell into a major depression after my boyfriend broke off with me for another gal. I naturally resorted to cosmetic surgery to improve my self-confidence.

Unfortunately, Dr surgery didn't help me much.

I went into deeper bouts of depression after his surgery because it couldn't help me achieve what i want - my boyfriend Andy. Moles simply refused to return back to me and had developed a liking for another gal in the arts faculty of my college.

This lady was a very beautiful gal who was in chinese cultural dance team and will often perform in major events in school functions and opening ceremonials.

Hence, I felt that I couldn't face my social circle in school because everyone knows Andy had left me for a much more prettier gal. I was still immatured then, I couldn't pull myself through this embarassment and eventually gave up on my studies to pursue plastic surgery - stupid isn't it?

You can imagine how people would commit much stupidity just for "face" issues.

Now, I realized my mistakes, I become more mature, I learnt that maybe I can't give him what the other gal can give, but still I don't have to give up my studies.

What a jerk. I agree with DMN regarding what he said about doing plastic surgery for oneself and not others.
When I decided to have rhinoplasty, my bf was dead against it. He said "I like the way u are now, there's no need for u to change anything."
I kept reiterating to him that I am doing it for myself, not him before he finally understand.
Looks is important but it isn't just looks alone that makes a girl attractive.
I believe that confidence is key to looking good...if u feel good, u look good.
And it's no use pining for someone who only likes u for your looks alone.
My guy told me "No doubt, it's the outside that attracts me initially, but it's the inside that makes me stay"

[ihatemynose]

Hi everyone i'm new to this forum i googled plastic surgeons and was led here.
I'm considering rhino...and after reading all the prvious posts, i've seen u guys mention Dr Jung many times.
Can you guys provide me with more info on him? like his website and all that cos i wld like to see the before and after pics for myself
thanks!!

[ihatemynose]

Hi everyone i'm new to this forum i googled plastic surgeons and was led here.
I'm considering rhino...and after reading all the prvious posts, i've seen u guys mention Dr Jung many times.
Can you guys provide me with more info on him? like his website and all that cos i wld like to see the before and after pics for myself
thanks!!

[Mia882]

Anyone got any recommendation for Doc in Korean that is good at eyelid surgery and do eyelash implant too.. Maybe what the cost like too? Sorry, no time to do read thru past thread, knw somewhere in this forum ppl mentioned before but dunno which page already..

[Shiyun]

[foubelle]

shiyuan, that's a lot for you to go through. how did the legal battles ended in the end. did he win?

pm-ed you regarding the doctor's name. pray tell so we will not go to him and suffer the same mistakes again.

[kwelll]

Dear Forumers,

Thank you for all the kind comments chugged in. I appreciate the concern shown.....Actually, I'm not asking for agreement that my boyfriend, Andy, is at fault nor he is a bad guy.

I know Andy for 3 years, and he is a very considerate and sweet guy. He must have his reasons for the break up. Still, I respect his decision because in human relationship, i believe, there is no right or wrong. It's a matter of fate and personality area to whether you can get along with him or not.

Neither do i have the time to hold grudge against him because rightafter my plastic surgery, I got into an a legal conflict with a famous surgeon and I was sued by him because of the comments I posted as a matter-of-facts in some forums.

This surgeon (whom i am unable to name due to legal concern), had gave me a very ignorant attitude despite my plea for him to look into my conditions post surgery. Though you guys complimented i looked nice in my photos, you did not witness the mess that i went through in terms of medical functions. I was an athelete in my school. Competition and performance is my strive. I put great pride in my sports cabibility and performance.

I experienced poor circultaion of bloodflow on my face in my excercises, my face feel cold. Due to the great amount substances injected deep into the face, it puffed up the face & sort of impede the amount of visual sight I can have while maintaining my head at eye level in an upright position.

My sports performance had decline gradually. Whatever short-term dreams I had turned into a fiasco proceeding this surgery.

I had already doubt the substances in side the face is fats because the puffiness maintained even after 2 years and I totally didn't appreciate this doctor who never discuss in details the incisions he would be making on my face on day of surgery. I have no idea what was being done because i'm under G.A and what was used in the actual injection, my speculations were liquid silicone due to the fact that my face had remained puffy for 5 years before i had revision or to put it exactly, berfore I can successfully find any surgeons in Singapore willing to help me in my conidtion.

In all these difficult episodes, I had tried to bring witnesses against the doctor but was unsuccessful, he even insulted me that i am wasting my time and everyone's time. He is totally incorrigible because he is unwilling to help me correct those problems which arised after his surgery, perhaps because he had a big reputation and was very self-absorbed most of the time. To acknowledge any mistakes or mess would be the most difficult thing for a highly reputable person ?

To me, fame with no integrity is of no use. I am a Christian, I still believe dishonesty would get God's attention accordingly 1 day. You reap what you sow. Deceit can be covered but not with the righteousness of God. That's what we know as retribution.

Further more, know what? My house got breaked into twice and some hooligans turned my orderly belongings into a topsy turvy. If this wasn't enough, Someone threatened to beat me up and I had no peace of mind. I installed survellances cameras in my own home for security reasons.

This is the life a 26 years old lead for just speaking up against situations. With every move I took to bring up the matter to the public, the enemy took 3 more steps to counter attack me. It's real terrible. Things got real bad that I even took cover in the Insititute of Mental Health of Singapore where I was under the protection and care of the nurses & Doctors.

I reckon, the gangsters would not be able to enter IMH to take my life. It was then when I was safe from harm, where I can sleep in peace every night and I remembered one verse from the bible which is very true ....
"The man who knows how to guards his tongue, guards his soul..."

Proverbs 21:23
Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles....

Thankfully, all these ordeals had ended . And I had learnt heavily in my rash and impulsiveness. To me, I take things easy now and I seldom speak the truth in commenting people in public.

The Truth can offends and .... The price to truth could be costly .... the price to freedom is indeed not free .....

Hi,

Life can certainly be a bitch and I know it! Read your post with interest and could honestly feel for you. The intricate fabric of life: when life throws lemons at you at the worst time ! But you`re a survivor - one who knows how to snap out of life's troubles and MOVE ON for a better future! Good for you darling and may the best be yet to be for YOU.

Bless you!

Kwell
PS( I know who you`re refering to )