What if he's willing to give part of his salary to me? Cause all along he's still letting me take half of his salary through our shared bank account.Strong Eagle wrote:If you divorce him, then you could no longer sponsor his ltvp+ which means he could not work, unless his employer were to be able to get a work permit for him. If the employer cannot get a work permit then he will need to leave the country.
Even if he were to get a work permit, you would have no claim on his salary unless you were able to obtain child support as part of the divorce decree.
Well, if he's willing to give part of his salary to you, then the man has integrity... he brought the children into the world, and he is also responsible for them.jlhytx wrote:What if he's willing to give part of his salary to me? Cause all along he's still letting me take half of his salary through our shared bank account.
Yup but the problem is he told me if he were to work in other country, the salary he will be getting is so much different from here due to the currency rate. And i do know that he can change his mind anytime.Strong Eagle wrote:Well, if he's willing to give part of his salary to you, then the man has integrity... he brought the children into the world, and he is also responsible for them.
Two things then:
a) If he's willing to voluntarily to give you money, it doesn't matter much where he works... he sends a wire transfer to you.
b) People without a legal obligation to pay do change their minds, and if he decides to stop paying you, you will have no recourse without a legal document. Even if you have a legal document and he can't get a work permit and must leave the country, your divorce degree specifying child support is much more difficult to enforce in another country.
Nope i doubt that he got any chances for an dependent pass. He studied till higher secondary if i'm not wrong. Been working in Singapore since 2007. He's from China.x9200 wrote:The most important thing would be to determine if your husband has any chances to get an independent pass.
What is his education, degree, experience / seniority level and country of origin?
An INdependent pass: i.e EP, but yep, without a degree or significant seniority/experience/niche profession = no chance.jlhytx wrote:Nope i doubt that he got any chances for an dependent pass. He studied till higher secondary if i'm not wrong. Been working in Singapore since 2007. He's from China.x9200 wrote:The most important thing would be to determine if your husband has any chances to get an independent pass.
What is his education, degree, experience / seniority level and country of origin?
Tbh i've tried applying PR for him few times already when we were still together but every time it's unsuccessful.PNGMK wrote:I have a suggestion. It's not moral but it's legal.
Explain to your husband that you cannot divorce. Help him progress through PR and try to get his Singapore citizenship even. Once he has that then divorce. Otherwise the reality is he will not be in the children's life and you will be a pauper. The only time you really need to divorce is when someone wants to remarry. If that is not the case; stay together for the children's sake.
Sorry i don't really get what u mean?x9200 wrote:An INdependent pass: i.e EP, but yep, without a degree or significant seniority/experience/niche profession = no chance.
Work Permit on the other hand is typically for low wedge employees and I think there are some further nationality based limitations - is this the level he contributes?
Staying on will cause more pain to me lol. I don't wish to experience betrayal for the 3rd time. Twice is enough for me.PNGMK wrote:jlhytx why are you considering divorce or separation? Maybe try to fix the marriage. Breaking it will cause a of lot pain and hardship.
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