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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby PNGMK » Thu, 26 Jan 2017 9:31 am

Well the general advice is: delete your social media presence (at least where there are mutual contacts), find a lawyer (if there are assets or children or a marriage involved) and hit the gym (to fight depression).

I've also found breakups to be a good time to renew relationships with family members (your long neglecated mother, aunts, uncles) and friends who are scattered all over the world. In my last breakup that's how I ended up meeting my wife who was working in Pakistan when I (on a whim and at her invitation) decided to visit her.
I have gay, black, Asian friends and then JR8.

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby aldoteng » Thu, 26 Jan 2017 11:28 am

In all honesty, getting laid helps a lot. I was having sex every two or three one-night-stands over a one-month period.

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby Mr-Miserable » Fri, 27 Jan 2017 5:36 pm

PNGMK wrote:I've also found breakups to be a good time to renew relationships with family members (your long neglecated mother, aunts, uncles) and friends who are scattered all over the world.


This is true, i realised i've spent lotsa time and money on gifts and luxury experiences on her instead of family members. Thanks!

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby PNGMK » Mon, 30 Jan 2017 5:24 pm

good luck. true love is never bought.
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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby nimmo23 » Thu, 02 Feb 2017 4:37 pm

PNGMK wrote:good luck. true love is never bought.


well said

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby Jason13 » Fri, 21 Jul 2017 7:44 pm

Just broke up from a 4 year relationship too. Its hurts a lot.

But if you are looking for reasons why she left. here is why: therationalmale.com/2012/05/16/hypergamy-doesnt-care/

Pm me for the heart broken looking to hangout for drinks such

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby ecureilx » Sat, 22 Jul 2017 11:10 am

Jason13 wrote:Just broke up from a 4 year relationship too. Its hurts a lot.

But if you are looking for reasons why she left. here is why: therationalmale.com/2012/05/16/hypergamy-doesnt-care/

Pm me for the heart broken looking to hangout for drinks such
Hmmmmm

Get on with life, don't brood over it.

PS, why she left, so you are flawless ?


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