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Mr-Miserable
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Depressed from a break up

Postby Mr-Miserable » Fri, 20 Jan 2017 8:34 pm

Broken up after 5 years together, totally depressed right now

Need to stop thinking about her, do pm me if you need someone to chat/guide you through anything in singapore - eat/visit/stay/etc anything

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby andying » Fri, 20 Jan 2017 9:14 pm

Hi Buddy,

Sorry to hear about your breakup...

i myself have had a similar situation, recently broke up from a 7 year relationship.

If you're keen for a meetup, a drink, a game of pool, and good all chat. let me know!

I'm new to singapore, 26 years old, british, keen to make some new friends, and knows how to have a good time!


If you're keen, let me know!
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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby gbullen » Fri, 20 Jan 2017 9:18 pm

I just arrived this week in Singapore, keen to meet new people so if you fancy a beer let me know (30/uk)


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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby andying » Fri, 20 Jan 2017 9:26 pm

gbullen wrote:I just arrived this week in Singapore, keen to meet new people so if you fancy a beer let me know (30/uk)


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Fancy a drink tonight bud? my number is posted above.

Cheers

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby Mr-Miserable » Fri, 20 Jan 2017 9:33 pm

hey guys, its not suitable for me to meet up right now due to my current state of depression
you'll find me a total bore/spoil sport and i might just feel like leaving halfway
i'd prefer lazing in front of the computer with a heavy heart

im ready to help on any question you might have about singapore - eat/visit/stay/etc
we could be online friends for now

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby gbullen » Sat, 21 Jan 2017 11:49 am

Mr-Miserable wrote:hey guys, its not suitable for me to meet up right now due to my current state of depression
you'll find me a total bore/spoil sport and i might just feel like leaving halfway
i'd prefer lazing in front of the computer with a heavy heart

im ready to help on any question you might have about singapore - eat/visit/stay/etc
we could be online friends for now


Chin up mate, it will get better


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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby blakeshefford » Sat, 21 Jan 2017 11:13 pm

Left a 7 year relationship 18 months ago, complete flat and mortgage complications... It gets better!

New to Singapore this weekend for at least 4 months. 27/m, always keen for a beer!

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby LaoDan » Sun, 22 Jan 2017 9:53 am

Beer makes everything ok, for a little while anyway

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby Sporkin » Sun, 22 Jan 2017 4:57 pm

Alcohol doesn't work well for me, after the inebriation wears off it's often the emptiness that remains. I focused on the stuff I'm good at(for the quick dopamine fix) and picked up a new hobby(for the novelty and distraction)

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby cheesecakex » Mon, 23 Jan 2017 8:50 pm

Is this the Jaded club? Will get everyone one round of "It gets better" shots but I just quit my job so.... it gets better! :D

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby RainieHrx » Tue, 24 Jan 2017 9:45 am

Mr-Miserable wrote:Broken up after 5 years together, totally depressed right now

Need to stop thinking about her, do pm me if you need someone to chat/guide you through anything in singapore - eat/visit/stay/etc anything


Don't worry, it's not the end of the world. As you are a guy, you have plenty of time to look for a new one. For us girls it's harder especially when we break up after a long relationship and realise we are already 30.

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby Mr-Miserable » Tue, 24 Jan 2017 8:31 pm

Thank you for the encouragement, i understand, just that im pretty sentimental
Head tells me its over and shes not the right one, heart refuses to let go and refreshes my head on the good memories
Only time will heal...

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby nimmo23 » Tue, 24 Jan 2017 11:27 pm

Cheer up everybody, CNY is around the corner..join some of the meetup or events to share the hapiness;)

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby PNGMK » Wed, 25 Jan 2017 9:33 am

Don't go on Tinder...
I have gay, black, Asian friends and then JR8.

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Re: Depressed from a break up

Postby rajagainstthemachine » Wed, 25 Jan 2017 8:09 pm

hit the bottle hard..
To get there early is on time and showing up on time is late


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