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When Harry Met Sally?

Postby Guest » Sat, 05 Feb 2005 3:09 pm

I am a thirty-something male, have recently relocated to Singapore from North America with a large MNC. I am attached, however my significant other is not with me. I have very few friends here; most of them are in relationships and it is sometime difficult to hang out with them- they go home after work pretty much every day! Hanging out with twenty-somethings, clubbing all the time is not fun either - no offense to the younger folks, it is just that I am in a different phase of my life. What I really miss is the interaction with opposite sex - sharing this incredible experience in Singapore with someone. I am one of these people who believe it is possible to be just good friends with a person of opposite gender.

No, I am not looking for an affair, simply platonic, fun interaction - sort of like the movie When Harry Met Sally. I am sure there are females out there who are in similar situation as myself, or not. If there is someone who would also appreciate intellectual interaction and friendship with a male without a complicated relationship, we are on the same page. Hanging out at Borders Cafe, sharing each other's perspectives on cultrures, politics and what not, discovering art galleries, restaurants etc. is what I am looking for.

If you are interested in meeting me, share similar perspective on life and are in late twenties/early thirties, please send me an e-mail at


Postby Guest » Sun, 06 Feb 2005 10:47 am

Hi NewInSpore,

I have sent an email with my contact details to you email address.

Hope to hear from you soon!


Postby Mummysgal » Sun, 06 Feb 2005 2:23 pm

Hi guest from Nth America. U sound like a really nice guy and I like to know u too, Is that ok? I am a really nice fun girl too.

Can my mum come too?


Postby sundaildreams » Sun, 06 Feb 2005 4:02 pm

i like mummygirl... so sweet and frank.



Postby Guest » Sun, 06 Feb 2005 4:15 pm

What is this Mummygirl all about? Is she pulling Newinspore's legs? Is this a joke?


Postby sundaildreams » Sun, 06 Feb 2005 4:35 pm

:) I dun think so... maybe she's just worried that she meets bad pple here, and to have her mom around would be better? Guess she's learning to grow up..


Postby Guest » Sun, 06 Feb 2005 4:42 pm

What is she - 14? ;-)


Postby sundaildreams » Sun, 06 Feb 2005 5:08 pm

well, if she's that young, then Im suprised she's here. but despite how old we are, to be on our toes is necessary... just dun be parinod


Postby Guest » Mon, 07 Feb 2005 10:12 am

Dear NewinSpore,

I like your idea and feel the same about ppl somethimes. My colleagues always go home after work most of the times. It is difficult to hang out with them. Yes... I do agree with you.
Sometime, just trying to be a good friend with male friends, it turns out to be another way around. Not simple...

I would like to be a friend like "when harry met sally".
Shall I email you, then????

Happy Chinese New Year!!

Regards, Lomi


Postby Mummysgal » Mon, 07 Feb 2005 4:31 pm

Hi guest from Nth America,

You'd prob guessed this is a windup! :lol:
Welcome to Singapore and have an enjoyable stay!

To the other postees, relax la, I am not under-aged, just
a young 95 yrs old pushing 100.

Wishing all a very happy and safe Chinese New Yr!
Chin chin

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