Let me help since peanut gallery got this all wrong.
1. Because France / Germany recognize defacto relationships you most likely can get a Dependant's pass with assistance from your bf employer. Just emphasis you live together as though you are married. I can't recall the salary limit for a DP but I think your bf is above it.
2. As a teacher I suggest you reach out to the German School / Swiss School and French (is there one or am I thinking of the French cultural thing?). If you can teach IB then all IB
International Schools are an option (there's about 6 here; the
Canadian International School also may be an option as they will need French teachers as well). Look at their websites for career openings and send in a resume and call .
International Schools here like people coming in on DP or as trailing spouses as they can pay them less (no accomodation) so you will generally find them responsive. IF you can't or don't get a DP you can probably get an employment visa via the school (my wife has one) as well. We are coming up to the recruiting period for next year but the main recruitment period is actually May from memory .
If you can get a job you will be much, much better off. The salary will help, you will have less visa issues and it will keep you busy. Try to set up some interviews and come out with your bf - if a school is desperate (and they can be) they may hire you immediately.
I not lawyer/teacher/CPA.
You've been arrested? Law Society of Singapore can provide referrals.
You want an International School job? School website or
http://www.ISS.edu
Your rugrat needs a School? Avoid for profit schools
You need Tax advice? Ask a CPA
You ran away without doing NS? Shame on you!
