expat husbands running away with asian lovers/bargirls/maids etc

[x9200]

I am not familiar with the "OL" acronym, "Office Lady"?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Office_lady

Is it really the same category as the SE bar girls? Sounds very different.

[sundaymorningstaple]

I don't want one with good taste - I want one that tastes good!

[Brah]

I am not familiar with the "OL" acronym, "Office Lady"?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Office_lady

Is it really the same category as the SE bar girls? Sounds very different.

yes to your first, no to your second - they are completely opposite

there it is all about the thrill of the chase of normal, educated, proper and available women

only losers pay for it in Japan

[nanana]

I think its the thickness.. Of the wallet.

Or the 10 fingers..

[rajagainstthemachine]

I think its the thickness.. Of the wallet.

Or the 10 fingers..

:facepalm: Lol

[earthfriendly]

It meant they often have exquisite taste in grooming, clothes, makeup, femininity, appropriateness for the situation, behavior, and attitude

Thank you for the elaboration. They sure sound like pleasant company.

[nakatago]

It meant they often have exquisite taste in grooming, clothes, makeup, femininity, appropriateness for the situation, behavior, and attitude

Thank you for the elaboration. They sure sound like pleasant company.

An office lady is a woman a man can introduce to his grandmother and not having to use euphemisms to describe public aspects of her life.

[Primrose Hill]

OMG

[rajagainstthemachine]

OMG

wot?

[Primrose Hill]

just a general OMG.
the yellow fever thingy
the naiveness of the expats

[Barnsley]

just a general OMG.
the yellow fever thingy
the naiveness of the expats

Maybe an all round complacency of "expats" ....

Move overseas , happy days .... sadly it just amplifies the issues that were maybe there in the first place.

[Brah]

just a general OMG.
the yellow fever thingy
the naiveness of the expats

Go ahead and believe that "yellow fever" thing, it will just make you sound like any number of the jilted.

It is usually said by Western women being passed over for the more numerous (and often more fit and attractive) locals who lack a certain entitlement complex.

In my (vast) experience it was a simple numbers thing, as I like almost all women. In fact my first experience with an Africa woman was in Japan. There were maybe 1 in 2000 Western women to local women in our circles, including those who were not particularly attractive, or not single, or who had this kind of defensive mentality.

Funny how women back home still make asinine comments like 'So you like submissive Asian women..."). If they only knew the reality, as any Western guy married to one can attest to the contrary.

Stereotypes die hard.

[Brah]

An office lady is a woman a man can introduce to his grandmother and not having to use euphemisms to describe public aspects of her life.

Right, or more simply, an educated woman who works in an office and is not a hooker. A single lady looking for a nice guy. Kinda like an educated man who works in an office and is not a hooker, only female.

[ecureilx]

Right, or more simply, an educated woman who works in an office and is not a hooker. A single lady looking for a nice guy. Kinda like an educated man who works in an office and is not a hooker, only female.

A single lady looking for ONS ?



Why didn't I think of that ..

[Brah]

A single lady looking for ONS ?



Why didn't I think of that ..

Like anywhere else, some were up for ONSs, others looking for boyfriends, others looking for husbands. Kinda like guys, only women.