I do think I deserve alimony and not because I am a hypocritical "modern, independent woman " as some put it but because of what husband has put me through.ecureilx wrote:or go for broke and demand a lump sum payment during divorce ??the lynx wrote:Will your family be understanding enough that you/your soon-to-be-ex will not be giving them money for 3-6 months while you find your ways to be independent?
That may work, if the divorce takes place in Singapore.
A lump sum, so Miss here can take a break while looking to land another big fish, and enough money to keep the family back home happy, and all is fine.
Why didn't anybody think of that ?
I wouldn't have married him had I been aware of his sexuality plain and simple, my consent was fraudulently obtained.
He has been cheating on me with this friend for years now, and maybe with other guys too although I can't be sure of that, that is adultery.
He spoiled my chances for having a normal marriage the for st time, I want to be compensated for mental trauma, adultery and loss of years.
Even if my family is poor they too wouldn't have consented to such a marriage even for 100000 SGD a month or any amount, forget 1000 SGD, my Uncle spent on my wedding in good faith.
I wish to be compensated for these tangible and intangible damages is that so wrong?