Well, as a country lad by upbringing I still stand back and have to smile at people who demand meat (etc), 'just not via killing things'. Or perhaps demanding that things are killed nicely, or politely. Yeah lol. Organic, so we've been kinder while it lived and I can feel less guilty about myself when it dies for me, so I'll pay double for the assuaging of my guilt... Sure, ok, I can sell you some primo middle-class anti-guilt tablets too.... heheee

[Note, this does NOT mean I'm anti welfare, respect, and so on - no no]
There is reality, and there is cruel. Getting meat from the field to the table involves blood guts distress and so on - it will never be nice at that end. If you can't accept that become vegetarian. I don't think you can wrap yourself up in lies where you eat meat and yet ever pretend it can be 'kind' - witness it, it can't, it's brutal. But as they say, 'Nature, red in tooth and claw'.