Should I ask, do you know why he seem to fancy Filipino girls ? Playful isn't an answer. And where would you be from ?joanalynfuerte wrote:Hi. Just wonder..i wif my bf for 3 yrs.. and we are getting married soon.. but i always caught him dating filipino gals from bars along tanjong pagar and orchard tower.. he say just playful and relieved stress.. and yet he like stil keep doing tat.. wat he can get from this place tat he cant stop.. and hes been dating them not only see them inside pubs. Im just wonder why he keep going to this kind of places.
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That's funnyrajagainstthemachine wrote:you should pull a macarena on him.
Yah... same here too.. i wanna see ful lyrics of macarenaecureilx wrote:That's funnyrajagainstthemachine wrote:you should pull a macarena on him.
Made me look up the lyrics of the song.
I understand... it just he trying to show me he wil change.. i just scared 1 day he wil ba back on this kind of playtime. Funny thing is we are getting married this end of the month. Crazy but.. i beliv i really love him..JR8 wrote:Pretty clearly (IMO) you can't marry him. If you were to, you are accepting his behaviour and inviting him to treat you like a doormat for the rest of your life. Surely you deserve someone better, not least someone who respects you?
It's hard enough dealing with such things when they begin and are revealed someway down the road into a marriage. Where do you draw the line, how do you go about rebuilding trust, and trying to get some functioning relationship back on track? And so on. But you aren't married yet, he's doing this to you, and you are fully aware of it. If you accept it now then you never have grounds to ask or expect him to change. A recipe for misery/disaster.
--- Apparently he doesn't respect you. Perhaps you might consider how much, deep down, you respect ('love') yourself. The danger being that if you don't respect yourself, you might conclude that you deserve nothing better than this man. And there you go, the two damaged pieces of the jigsaw just about fit together, at least for a while...
... Just my 2c (and something I learned and grew from after my unenviable 1st marriage).
the reason is that there is no other person you love but only him...not even yourselfjoanalynfuerte wrote: I understand... it just he trying to show me he wil change.. i just scared 1 day he wil ba back on this kind of playtime. Funny thing is we are getting married this end of the month. Crazy but.. i beliv i really love him..
I may ask, how many times he did it already and she never caught it ..the lynx wrote:Look at it another way, if he can bring himself to do that kind of horrible thing to you one time, what's stopping him to do it again (and again and again and again)?
You might as well hire an escort.ecureilx wrote:But in reality, at the risk of implicating myself , I know such harmless bars cost upwards of 500 $ a night
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